"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Improving Eyesight?

Orwell

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my eyesight has slowly been getting worse and worse making me squint every time I need to look away. I hate glasses and wearing contacts gets annoying (taking them out and putting them in) Are there exercises or supplements I can take to make my eyesight better w/o surgery?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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donjuanjovi

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Your eye ball is a lens. There are muscles in you socket that change the shape of the eye to focus what ever you're looking at. Sometimes the eye ball will gradually change shape and go out of focus. Changing the shape of your eye lens is not possible through diet or exercises.

If you don't like glasses or contacts, than save up for laser eye surgery.
 

MuayThai

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I heard doing things like; focusing really close and far away and trying to notice alot with your eyes helps you eyesight. Never tried it though.

Don't use a computer too much!
 

spesmilitis

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Make sure your eyes are looking at a variety of distances. Im not sure why, but my eyes have stopped getting worse. Here may be some reasons why:

-I get out a lot, get to see a lot of things from long distances
-I eat healthy, fruits and veg's
-I keep in shape.
 

MisterNigma

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Basically lasik. Unfortunately that's all that can be done. A good diet and vitamin supplements also help. Just take multivitamins. For whatever strange reason I have very good night vision, but I'm also legally blind, so go firgure.


-E.Nigma
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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cambie

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i know you said you didn't like contacts but it seems like it's not that you hate the feeling of wearing contacts, but the fact that you have to remove them daily.

there are these new silicone based lenses (about 2 years old) that can be worn for 30 continous days without removal. you can sleep in them and shower, anything. take them out on the 30th day and put in a new pair.

they're called focus night and day. silicone is fully permeable to oxygen, compared to the old lens that are waterbased that oxygen has to diffuse through. they let in up to 5 times the minimum corneal oxygen requirement. also, silicone does not bind bacteria like the old type of lens.

i love these lens, great when you can't (or don't want to ) take them out.
plus they're more hypoallergenic than the older lens types.
 
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