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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
IMO, one of the best scenes in modern cinema
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Nice. Never saw the second one. Thanks for posting this, peaks.
Probably not one of the best acting wise, but definitely relevant to the red pill.
Probably not one of the best acting wise, but definitely relevant to the red pill.
Peaks&Valleys
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Agreed haha. The movie was okay, a little too artsy fartsy for my taste, but still an okay watch. That scene was awesome when I first saw it though. Didn't like the break in it, and wasn't a fan of the hockey guy at the end, but still a great scene.TyTe`EyEz said: