"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I want to improve myself. I really do, and I am improving slowly. My attitude is improving, and ive joinded some clubs. But really it never feels like anythings changing. Ive wanted to improve myself almost as far as I can remeber but I never really have. Every day I just go to school, where everyone has boring conversations, and at lunch I just sit on this bench with my friends and do nothing. I go to an all boys school and I barley ever talk to girls. But hey, I didnt talk to girls very well when I was at a co-ed school. Every day I do basically the same thing, nothing new really happens. Im not here to whine, but I really feel like this is impossible. I keep thinking I need to find a magic pill or have a defining moment before I change. Everything ive ever imporved at has seemed to invole me wandering around it circles improving so slowly I dont notice it. What should I do, bootcamp, watch fight club,stop jacking off, or what?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Just learn from everyday man. Try meeting some chicks and I bet your life will be much better. just keep reading tips and you will be fine.
 
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Microphone Fiend

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you've got your whole life to change.. it doesnt happen overnight. What i think has happened is you have change overa long period of time so you dont really notice it. Not everyone wakes up one day and throws caution to the wind. There are people who take thing one step at a time such as yourself. If you have a goal, break it into smaller goals until you can accomplish one weekly or daily or what have you.

Search for threads started by "sammo" he has one on goal settin that would help you immensely

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OMG DUDE.. I had same problem~~~ But dude life will never lead u the way to heaven, u have to lead life.. The desicions u make will be made and no one will stop it from doing what u do with ur life! U have to make diferent choices.. DOnt sit near the boys.. And try approaching some new people..try getting as many girl friends as u can!! Like i said u lead the life, life doesnt lead u..Good luck.. And ya join some normal clubs were u will get to know as many new people as u can!! Make sure most of em girls that way U CAN HAVE MORE FUN!! GUYS ARE BORING!!!!!
 
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