So here we are again. The carousal that is The Lone Wolf Legend. Here is my takeaway. Again, if it falls on deaf ears now, maybe it helps someone else down the road.
1. If this guy is indeed a real person and not a troll. Or even a combination of the 2. The advice we all give is still good. Especially in writing for others to read.
2. Telling him off will not change anything. Hasn’t yet. If he is a troll, it feeds it. If he is a human, it feeds his negative feedback loop.
3. Wolf: I am glad to hear the girl you are desperately settling for, flaked. Settling for something you do not desire is the EXACT opposite of what life is about. It is the EXACT opposite of what this message board mission is.
4. Wolf: I am glad to hear you are desperate and in despair. Desperation and despair is the mother of ingenuity and action. From the Ashes rises the Phoenix. Embrace the pain and turn it into action. So far, this is what separates you from the rest of us. If in your tiny mind you realize this I am confident you on finally on your way to success.
5. The actions to take your frustration out on should be:
a. Go to the gym six days a week. If you cannot, for whatever excuse you seem to find go on you tube and do P90x routines or something like it at home for no less than 45 min per day.
b. Get a job and excel at it each day. If you cannot, for whatever excuse you seem to find then pursue a work from home route. You can stuff newspapers into bags. You could have people bring their cords of would over your house for you to chop. You could go on craigslist and advertise for free your services of any kind. Maybe try to be a senior companion. They will come pick you up and you can wash their windows and help them go to the market, do laundry, take out the trash, sweep the stoop etc etc. At the end of the day, they will pay you and drop you back off at home.
c. Join a club that you find others with common interests or even try something new. Video games club? Cooking club? (that could help with chicks later on) Book club? (that could help with your obvious challenges of reading comprehension and spelling and grammar) Music club? Fishing club? Dart club?(social laid back way to meet people)
d. Volunteer: One of the best pieces of advice I have ever seen given to you was to Volunteer with animals and help them get adopted out. You will me great people doing this and being around animals will be very therapeutic for you. You could also think about Fire Dept or EMS. You do not have to put out fires or save people to join and become a member. Both are always looking for new people to help out around the Headquarters in uncountable ways. At first you will be a probie (this will be good for you because you will be surrounded by MEN who will whip your ass into shape and will love you well if you make it) and it will entail cleaning and learning the ropes. Once you are a member though you have a lot of fun. Even if you never step foot on a truck, you can bartend parties they have, help with outreach and fund raising, tech stuff, mechanics etc etc. And here is a bone for your one tract mind… You get a photo in your turnout gear(firefighter or EMS outfit) and put that on social media and watch how the chicks start flowing in.
6. Find a therapist. I think we all and even yourself, have concluded that you need emotional and cognitive therapy. God Bless a world where this is so readily available and there is no longer a stigma in pursuing it. You can even find therapists that will Skype or Face Time with you!
7. NEW IDEA! Start a journal here at SS. This will help solve a lot of problems for you and for us. It will keep you from over posting and spamming. It will enable those of us that care to check in on you and waste our time some more without the burden of defending you with wet spaghetti. Seriously though. It might actually earn you some good graces and will help you track your own (dare I say) progress. Those that are sick of hearing from you or think you are a lost cause will not be annoyed anymore because your posts will be in one thread. Heck, they might even check in with you when you start to emerge as something other than a doddering nincompoop and encourage and begin to communicate with you again. This not only is a good idea, it might be your only hope to stick around SS.
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