"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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im soooo insensitive

mrsoy

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ever had a gf who gets offended way too easily. i mean im a pretty sarcastic kid who likes to point out ironies and stuff, but i mean, my gf gets way too *****y if i make a small joke about her or something ya know...for example


we were talkin and she said something about being turned on and i go "haha,doesnt take much" and she got wicked pissy and ****

or

today at lunch at school,i had a sleeveless shirt on cause i had just went swimming and this girl i really dont like goes "youre looking macho today"...then 5 minutes later my gf comes over and sits down next to me and goes "what with the fashion?" and "but its dirty" cause i had a stain on it. so eventualy i go "haha,whatre you doin over here anyway" she goes "What,i cant sit here now?" i go "haha,no,no you cant" in a wicked sarcastic voice and she gets pissy and jets
then she ignores me...

idk..youd think she'd be used to me by now after 6 months..but i mean,she makes jokes about me and you dont see me *****ing,all i say when she says **** i go "haha,yep,alrite,we'll see"

so idk,why does she act so uptite? summer is coming and idk,im not going to be treated like **** and ignored all summer for dumb ****.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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JudgementDay

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Even though she is being a b!tch about it, most girls like a ****y guy over a quiet guy who's afraid to hurt her feelings. If it is really offending her, then try toning it down and don't tease her as much, but don't completely stop.
 

PiHiPlaya

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You're really gonna have to watch the tone of the voice. Instead of a wicked sarcastic voice try a stupid funny voice when you stay stuff like "what are you doing here anyway"

Just pay attention for a while... work on it over summer
 

DJ Alejandro

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just cut it down, man.

maybe ur doing it too much it aint funny anymore.
 

NRM

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Well, I think you need to tone it down. You should be at a level of ****iness that she enjoys and thinks is funny. If she gets pissed off and leaves, that isn't a level that you should be at. It's different for all girls, but they can usually stand a good bit of sarcasm. Girls should laugh and maybe playfully hit you when you make sarcastic remarks, not get up and leave.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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