i'm 39, live in the northeast, 39 years old, ashamed to say that i've been rejected by every girl i've asked out in person and of the girls that i went out with online every single one rejected me within one date. i couldn't even get a single kiss or hug in. it's like i'm a gooey yucky susstance to them. i do what they want, i give them what they want, i don't ask them for sex or bring up sexual innuendo so as not to offend their fragile egos. i've now gained weight and refuse to even enter a gym again because all the chumps in there make fun of me everytime i walk in. thanks to websites like this and women's magazines a few get everything and i get nothing. i'm 39 and havent even been hugged or kissed by a woman i've dated. not once.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
i'm ruined
- Thread starter jon 39
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
i don't know what the **** you are talking about. i don't know what gp is.SoSuave666 said:Is that you, gp?
how bout i fight all the hunks in the gym. i ****ing give up. of couse they think i'm one because they all got started at 13 and 39 and still can't get a ****ing thing. **** everybody. i'm done. **** the designers of the webiste and the advice gives and especialy **** cosmo magazne and everyone associated with it in any way. go to hell *******.PairPlusRoyalFlush said:They think you're a troll. Be a man and get in the gym and stop being a pu$$y.
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Troll in the dungeon!
i'll meet you in downtown boston for a fight asswipeseethehoop said:Troll in the dungeon!
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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I'll be there about 20:00, you'll recognise me from all the photos you have of me nailing ya mum.jon 39 said:i'll meet you in downtown boston for a fight asswipe
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get in the gym puvsssyyy , you mirin ?!
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jon 39 said:i'm 39, live in the northeast, 39 years old, ashamed to say that i've been rejected by every girl i've asked out in person and of the girls that i went out with online every single one rejected me within one date. i couldn't even get a single kiss or hug in. it's like i'm a gooey yucky susstance to them. i do what they want, i give them what they want, i don't ask them for sex or bring up sexual innuendo so as not to offend their fragile egos. i've now gained weight and refuse to even enter a gym again because all the chumps in there make fun of me everytime i walk in. thanks to websites like this and women's magazines a few get everything and i get nothing. i'm 39 and havent even been hugged or kissed by a woman i've dated. not once.
Firstly, you don't need to go the gym if you wanna work out. I don't. I use shopping bags and books for dumbells and pretty much use body weight based on work-outs for prisoners or marines. Works just fine for me. I also jog a lot.
Second...well, there is no second.
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Purefilth
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gspshields4 would be a better name
Iceberg
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Well to be fair, gpshields3 wasn't gsps2. He was making fun of gsps2.Purefilth said:gspshields4 would be a better name
But thanks to the mods, we've had a relatively troll-free past few weeks.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Lift heavy and take your multisjon 39 said:i'm 39, live in the northeast, 39 years old, ashamed to say that i've been rejected by every girl i've asked out in person and of the girls that i went out with online every single one rejected me within one date. i couldn't even get a single kiss or hug in. it's like i'm a gooey yucky susstance to them. i do what they want, i give them what they want, i don't ask them for sex or bring up sexual innuendo so as not to offend their fragile egos. i've now gained weight and refuse to even enter a gym again because all the chumps in there make fun of me everytime i walk in. thanks to websites like this and women's magazines a few get everything and i get nothing. i'm 39 and havent even been hugged or kissed by a woman i've dated. not once.
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pics or it aint true.
what makes your post smell like a troll is that you state exactly the opposite of what you are supposed to do and complain.
also hard to believe that anyone would make fun of you in a gym. unless maybe you really are a troll and look like that.
what makes your post smell like a troll is that you state exactly the opposite of what you are supposed to do and complain.
u do what YOU want, dont give them what they want (unless it's your d!ck in her mouth) and of course you are as sexual as you want, because you dont give a sh!t whether it upsets her or not. hard to believe that you d be 39 and not having realized that by now (especially when you are somehow familiar with this board).jon 39 said:i do what they want, i give them what they want, i don't ask them for sex or bring up sexual innuendo so as not to offend their fragile egos.
also hard to believe that anyone would make fun of you in a gym. unless maybe you really are a troll and look like that.