It's custom for all the oldtime members to say goodbye to the forum when the time is right. This is my last post here, I'm going to take a long vacation from these boards and live the life of being the prize, make the world my laboratory so to speak and to build up my life and find the love off my life.
I want to thank everyone who has helped me become what I didn't think was possible. The one thing that has held me to this place has been the H&F section and the very liberal atmosphere about improvement.
One reason I am leaving I feel I no longer learn anything from this site, I strongly object against the very stereotypical way "Don Juan" is characterised as and the many time absurd calculated way on what a DJ should do. The beauty off being a don juan is that you can make up what you feel is DJ and what is not. The importance is not what you do, it's the feeling you get from doing it. It's the sum off all your emotions that will tell you how successful you were in your life. Wheter you were AFC or DJ, monk or player.
When I got here I wanted to be a seducer, I learned scripts and stuff like that until i realized it didn't work and wasn't fun, then I improved and wanted to be the prize. You don't have to work especially much to notice the difference in the reaction you get from girls and people around you. Girls will chase you, you get a higher value. You'll experience what a turn off AFCness is firsthand. Only this week I was told (when a girl "confessed" her feelings) that all girls in a group I met a little while ago was in love with me or liked me deeply, I had become their favourite topic of conversation, and I didn't do a thing to get this response. One told me she dreamed about me and stuff like that and she didn't know why. The problem will be making friends with girls without them falling in love and letting down the ones who do fall in love. But getting girls is just a bonus, the contentment of life is the thing that improving your life will give and it's the real goal, at least for me. It's amazing not to need anything or postpone happiness to the future until you do XYZ.
If you want to become the prize I suggest you start with working with your body, it will build you a platform on where you can build your dream. Figure out who you really are and go for that, not the dream they try to sell you here. From my experience, do what you feel you want to do and then when something doesn't go as you plan, figure out why, do something about it. Read my post, "follow your goddamn heart" to understand what I mean. Take all terms out off your head and focus on what you feel.
And if you do want to be the prize you will have to reject more women than you accept. Do not lower your standards, have as high standards on the women you seek as you have on yourself. Women are not really that important as it may seem, most are rather boring and not really worth all this work you put down to get them. I find them more rewarding as friends, sex is clearly overrated.
The goal off life is to have fun and to be happy IMO. Nothing attract more than happiness, you will glow like the sun when you are happy combined with a great body and a flirty personality. I bet you have met girls like that who are happy and let the guys come to her. She treats people with respect and stuff like that. Treat the girls as your male friends, the only reason men are not good at seducing is that they are afraid off the womens reactions. Mostly women are rather harmless and won't take offence if you are playful with them.
Well, goodbye.
Lifeforce
MY MSN: [email protected] just incase anyone want to get in touch
I want to thank everyone who has helped me become what I didn't think was possible. The one thing that has held me to this place has been the H&F section and the very liberal atmosphere about improvement.
One reason I am leaving I feel I no longer learn anything from this site, I strongly object against the very stereotypical way "Don Juan" is characterised as and the many time absurd calculated way on what a DJ should do. The beauty off being a don juan is that you can make up what you feel is DJ and what is not. The importance is not what you do, it's the feeling you get from doing it. It's the sum off all your emotions that will tell you how successful you were in your life. Wheter you were AFC or DJ, monk or player.
When I got here I wanted to be a seducer, I learned scripts and stuff like that until i realized it didn't work and wasn't fun, then I improved and wanted to be the prize. You don't have to work especially much to notice the difference in the reaction you get from girls and people around you. Girls will chase you, you get a higher value. You'll experience what a turn off AFCness is firsthand. Only this week I was told (when a girl "confessed" her feelings) that all girls in a group I met a little while ago was in love with me or liked me deeply, I had become their favourite topic of conversation, and I didn't do a thing to get this response. One told me she dreamed about me and stuff like that and she didn't know why. The problem will be making friends with girls without them falling in love and letting down the ones who do fall in love. But getting girls is just a bonus, the contentment of life is the thing that improving your life will give and it's the real goal, at least for me. It's amazing not to need anything or postpone happiness to the future until you do XYZ.
If you want to become the prize I suggest you start with working with your body, it will build you a platform on where you can build your dream. Figure out who you really are and go for that, not the dream they try to sell you here. From my experience, do what you feel you want to do and then when something doesn't go as you plan, figure out why, do something about it. Read my post, "follow your goddamn heart" to understand what I mean. Take all terms out off your head and focus on what you feel.
And if you do want to be the prize you will have to reject more women than you accept. Do not lower your standards, have as high standards on the women you seek as you have on yourself. Women are not really that important as it may seem, most are rather boring and not really worth all this work you put down to get them. I find them more rewarding as friends, sex is clearly overrated.
The goal off life is to have fun and to be happy IMO. Nothing attract more than happiness, you will glow like the sun when you are happy combined with a great body and a flirty personality. I bet you have met girls like that who are happy and let the guys come to her. She treats people with respect and stuff like that. Treat the girls as your male friends, the only reason men are not good at seducing is that they are afraid off the womens reactions. Mostly women are rather harmless and won't take offence if you are playful with them.
Well, goodbye.
Lifeforce
MY MSN: [email protected] just incase anyone want to get in touch
