Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I'm not that easy

The Bad Ass Canadian

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Greetings fellow DJ's

This tip (if you can call it that) only applies to when YOU get approached.....and works best if she's really hot. (i.e. used to getting hounded and harrassed by many guys. The challenge factor is the driving force behind this.)

I know what some of you are thinking, "I NEVER get approached!! WTF are you saying????"

It's true, some of you won't get anything from this... since it is a particularly rare situation yet seems to happen to me alot, only because I'm a frontman for a band.

The other night I got off stage and it was a particularly good night, quality-wise, for the ladies in the crowd.....Most were 8.5's and up.... This place is one of the ritzier clubs in my city, so the more "Beautiful" people tend to frequent here.

There were these 2 very hot women (the hottest of the two was in my book a 9.5) who had been giving me the eyes the entire set, so I was having fun with them while we were performing

They came up to me when i walked off and we chatted fluff talk... eventually she told me that her and her friends goal for the night was to capture me.

I started laughing and told them that "I'm not THAT easy" (Big grin implying that they had gotten the wrong idea from me)

I followed up with " You can try, though"

Another big grin, and a little rub on her waist/back for effect

Her eyes lit up. It was a breath of fresh air for miss-too-hot-for anyone to hear that kinda talk coming from a guy....

The trick was all in the delivery, mind you


It was simple and different... Unfortunately I'm seeing someone so I didn't persue it.... Turns out both were married, either way and they were just out to have a girls night out.. I'm sure I could have banged her, but I'm not about to screw some dude's wife... I've got morals and some class....even though I'm a rock musician.


I hope this example can give you all something to think about in your interactions with REALLY hot women... They are no different than anyone else and in most cases you should bust their balls, whenever you get the chance....just don't go overboard and keep it fun.


The Bad Ass Canadian
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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