"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Im not talking to you

Jizz

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Ok so theres this girl at college, nd i was hanging out with her the other day and i said something i shoudnt of pparently (i cant remember what, i think it might of been tht i felt sorry for her, but im not actually sure) and this resulted in her not talking to me, i tried asking her something but she just didnt reply so i saw a mate and said bye to her and left!

anyway next day shes still saying that shes not talking to me, any ****y and funny ways to reply to this and act?

all this is mucking about, its not serious "im never talking to you again" its more of a bit of a laugh, but some good replys or way to act would be good

for example when i first realised she wasnt talking to me i just sat and smiled at her while she was staring ahead trying to concentrate on work and she just started laughing and said "go away, im not talking to you"

anything else i could do?

cheers
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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joekerr31

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start flirting with other girls in front of her.

J
 

spider_007

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-she is trying to get you to chase her. stop talking to her, for a few days, include everybody else in your convo, but her (works even if she is serious)


or


-run upto her and give her a bear hug (pick her up off the ground)

-tell her she has a bugger sticking out of her nose, if she doesn't say/do anything, keep with it "damn it's a huge one, it wierd haw it just stays there, doesn't fall off (keep staring at her upclose)

......tha's just of the top of my head....
 

organizedconfusion

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she's just testing you;) and it shows her the type of guy you are by your responses to her

i'd definetly continue to pile on the playfully teasing/chasing bid relentlessly...

WHY?

because it's light and fun. In time if she was really hurt
she'll eventually come around and tell you why she was upset.
i have done this billions of times and works for me like magic.
 
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