im kinda stumped on an idea

[ssj4halo]

If we know that there is no reason to get worried about girls or making them the target and whatever....you KNOW logically as a scientific person there is no LOGICAL reason for you to be nervous, etc.

if that is the case.....why do you still act like that when you talk to girls....It doesnt make sense. How can you trully believe in something and stand by the scientific method so strongly, yet at the same time drop all of it out of the window when you talk to a girl? Anyone know what I/people do it?

 

[Reckoning]

I like to think that your boner takes away all the blood flow from your brain.

 

[cavedweller]

You need to slow down and chill out. Remember:---Women are a 'dime-a-dozen'.

cavedweller

 

[ssj4halo]

I like to think that your boner takes away all the blood flow from your brain.

Oh wow. I didn't think about that. You made me make a important connection. How about if the reason why theory never works(no matter how much you get) and practice is the only way to get through it because its physiological, like drugs.

When you take drugs like cocaine you grow new synapseses on your axons. When you stop taking drugs, those synapses tend to go away. Think of axons as bodies and synapses are long hands holding on to your body. The more people holding on to you(the more synapses) the more harder it is for you to change because all those people holding you are sending "chemicals" to make you to NOT change.

This is why addiction is so hard. You have to constantly push yourself and go out and practice. That is the only way the synapses will die off, or put in my example the only way people will stop holding on to you and you can be free.

What does this mean? NO matter how much theory you learn, those synapses will still be there. you have to go out and practice so you can lose the synapses!

amazing. I can use my biology major for everyday applications.

EDIT: (please read if you are a logical/scientific person like myself

A year ago, with all the theory I know(pook, RSD, man-ness lol), I found out that the only way to apply this is in practice. I did good...I lost my v-card. But of course I still had many problems talking to cute chicks. I tend to forget everything the moment I talk to the girl. I can't relax no matter how much I try. Now I realize that I just have to try harder and stop looking for answers.

The reason for this is because no matter how many answers you get, what I just told you guys will make all the theory null. NO matter how much I know, the snypses will work in a way so that when I am with a girl I will automatically shut off. it makes SENSE.

The only way to get rid of those snapyses is to literally just go out and practice through a process called desensitization. You are SUPPOSED to forget everything so dont be hard on yourself(like I was until just now)!

I hope all who just read this can understand it through why we must go out and practice and turn off the computer through the sosuave way and for the scientific people like myself, the logical way. Now that I know, I can let go for hunting for new knowledge. So long susuave, this is my last post! I will come now and then to read one of pooks articles though :]

 

[Vice]

People act nervous because emotions are more powerful than logic.

 

[Reckoning]

Oh wow. I didn't think about that. You made me make a important connection. How about if the reason why theory never works(no matter how much you get) and practice is the only way to get through it because its physiological, like drugs.

When you take drugs like cocaine you grow new synapseses on your axons. When you stop taking drugs, those synapses tend to go away. Think of axons as bodies and synapses are long hands holding on to your body. The more people holding on to you(the more synapses) the more harder it is for you to change because all those people holding you are sending "chemicals" to make you to NOT change.

This is why addiction is so hard. You have to constantly push yourself and go out and practice. That is the only way the synapses will die off, or put in my example the only way people will stop holding on to you and you can be free.

What does this mean? NO matter how much theory you learn, those synapses will still be there. you have to go out and practice so you can lose the synapses!

amazing. I can use my biology major for everyday applications.

EDIT: (please read if you are a logical/scientific person like myself

A year ago, with all the theory I know(pook, RSD, man-ness lol), I found out that the only way to apply this is in practice. I did good...I lost my v-card. But of course I still had many problems talking to cute chicks. I tend to forget everything the moment I talk to the girl. I can't relax no matter how much I try. Now I realize that I just have to try harder and stop looking for answers.

The reason for this is because no matter how many answers you get, what I just told you guys will make all the theory null. NO matter how much I know, the snypses will work in a way so that when I am with a girl I will automatically shut off. it makes SENSE.

The only way to get rid of those snapyses is to literally just go out and practice through a process called desensitization. You are SUPPOSED to forget everything so dont be hard on yourself(like I was until just now)!

I hope all who just read this can understand it through why we must go out and practice and turn off the computer through the sosuave way and for the scientific people like myself, the logical way. Now that I know, I can let go for hunting for new knowledge. So long susuave, this is my last post! I will come now and then to read one of pooks articles though :]

You also seem like a over-analyzing person. So it could always be that. Just chill, don't expect it's going to happen or else you look needy and desperate if you think about every single word you're supposed to say. You need to build conversation skills with other people instead of sitting here reading what to say and how to say it.

 

[Mike32ct]

People act nervous because emotions are more powerful than logic.

Exactly. I'm not disagreeing with the OP. We should be more logical, but it is not easy.