"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm kind of AFC and I think I have a kind of good advice ;]

sam21

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check if she paints her nails and if she does, grab her hands and talk to her about them... it's very cool, in my experience they get happy very instantly.. and you can say stuff about the colors or the way she painted them... like... not very well =P it's a very fun situation, and you are touching her hands and making her have a good time

and the best part is that you can make it like a game, and to always check her hands when you meet, "how are they this time? I told you to get them nice for me.. let me see"

it depends on the girl of course, but it's easy to know if she will accept your touching, and if you two get along well it's very likely to work... and it's a plus almost for sure

;P

okie, my super pro hyper DJ advice... I hope it saves you a lot of hearts, ;P
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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It is good advice in my opinion and it's something I've done many times too. Any chance to touch a woman is good, and as you said, it's a chance to see how she accepts you touching her.
 

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but he does have a good point, even if we don't understand it, it is something that they value immensely so if we pay the slightest interest it will separate us from the rest of the pack who don't pick up on that kind of snit.
 

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Personally painted fingernails are a huge turn off for me, I don't mind the toes though as long as it isn't some crazy ass color like black or green.
 
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