"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Im in big trouble Valentines day my phone off good or bad idea

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Ok at the current moment i am basicly banging 5 different girls, which all of them claim me as their bf, well 2 of them not as much but they still claim me as their main, the other 3 they are in love with me, and i only care about 1 of them really...

There is no way that im buyin 5 gifts, im thinking in going to my main girl house and just kick it with her for the day, with my phone off in the car ofcourse, what do yall think.

See this is when gettin women becomes a problem...:)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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dude are you unemployed??? Don't mean it in a bad way. Just can't see where you get the time to see 3 girls enough that they think they are in love with you! I'd advise breaking up with the 2 girls who love you but you're not really into. That still leaves you 3 :)

There's nothing wrong with spinning plates as long as you're both on the same level.
 
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I'm curious about this too. I only have 2 plates currently, but I still can't give both equal coverage.
 
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Plain & Simple said:
Ok at the current moment i am basicly banging 5 different girls, which all of them claim me as their bf, well 2 of them not as much but they still claim me as their main, the other 3 they are in love with me, and i only care about 1 of them really...

There is no way that im buyin 5 gifts, im thinking in going to my main girl house and just kick it with her for the day, with my phone off in the car ofcourse, what do yall think.

See this is when gettin women becomes a problem...:)
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Impressed by the numbers! Why don't leave your phone on at home so you can tell which girls are calling you.. Or my personal favorite... bring the girl over to your place and put your phone in your mailbox(in the lobby if you live in an apartment complex). :) That way you can leave it on, and there's no chance the girl you're with is gonna find it and bust you.

To be honest, I don't know how you pull that sh!t off. I have enough trouble finding enough time to go out with the gf 2-3 times/week.
 
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Lol, you guys are funny with the "OMG, how do you have time to have that many women!" statements.

There's 24 hours in a day, you sleep 6 of those hours, that leaves you with how many more hours? 18!!

If you are like me, you probably focus on making money about 6 or 7 of those hours, so how many hours are left? 11!

11 hours to do what you want to do. Yes, it's called time management, and plus is called KNOWINIG THE GAME.

Knowing how to manage yoru assets (women), so you keep them all pleased.

But hey, Plain and Simple, why not do this? Why not go see them all? Valentine day for me tomorrow is this, I'm not working at all in the field tomorrow, I'm going out with a chick in the morning, then I got one in the day time that I'm spending time with, then one for the late night. Leverage your time to your favor.

Good Fvcking!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Well, I work 8 hours per day, get an hour lunch, that's 9 hours. I sleep 8 hours per day like a normal person. That's 17 hours right there. 24-17=7. Then you figure 1 hour traveling/getting ready, that's 6 hours free time during the weekdays. Basically from 12 midnight to 6 pm I am either sleeping or working. You can't visit 5 women on Valentine's Day. You'd be lucky to visit 2 without them wondering what's going on, let alone 3. Either way, the girl you don't spend Valentine's Day with is going to wonder what's going on.
 
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"Well, I work 8 hours per day, get an hour lunch, that's 9 hours. I sleep 8 hours per day like a normal person."

Okay.

"That's 17 hours right there. 24-17=7. Then you figure 1 hour traveling/getting ready, that's 6 hours free time during the weekdays. Basically from 12 midnight to 6 pm I am either sleeping or working."

Great.

"You can't visit 5 women on Valentine's Day."

No YOU can't, lol.

"You'd be lucky to visit 2 without them wondering what's going on, let alone 3. Either way, the girl you don't spend Valentine's Day with is going to wonder what's going on."

Lol, well, again once you really understand the game you can avoid this. You guys seem to think of having 10 women, is having 10 relationships. I live my life a little different than you guys I guess. Majority of the women I fvck I would NOT even consider being in a relationship with. Just because, I require my girlfriend to have certain qualities, and most women don't fit them. I really only have one serious girlfriend right now, but the rest are totally fvck partners. This enables a guy to have mulitple women at one time, because that guy UNDERSTANDS that just because a girl fvcks him DOES NOT MEAN she likes him or is even considered worthy for a relationship.

I honestly believe that guys get cheated on, used and abused, because they jump in relationships with chicks that don't CARE ABOUT THEM. Just because a girl fvcks you, that doesn't mean anything!

Can you call her up at 4 in the morning to come pick you up 50 miles away becasue your car is stopped?
- This is what a girl that CARES about you would do, and majority of women would not do this.

But they will fvck you if you have a lot of sexual flow, so that's where most of my relationships are at, the Fvcking Level.

That's why I am "FREE" yes I just said "FREE" to fvck all these women with no TIES!

rrrr why don't you get free? Freedom is better than bondage. Lol.
 
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