"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Don Juan
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Today i went to school, i get this once in a while. It's like a anxious feeling but usually i just breathe in and out and it goes away, but it wouldn't go away i was going to approach some girls but today was just not my day. i'm still getting that feeling right. it's like in my stomach all the way up to my chest. i tried breathing in and out and stuff.
and by the way i love this community without i wouldn't have changed into a more confident person. This community even helped me in football. All this pickup stuff really is all about ''Building a Life''
like Mystery said. I love it i read mysteries e-book i'm still rimproving everyday i'm using e-book stuff on some girls at my school. It's working really well. I got a other those multiple girls i need a opener. i'm good at everything else(still improving) but the opener. It's not really that i'm bad at it it's just when i'm on the spot when i'm about to go talk to that girl i say to myself i dont' know what to say. At my school there is plenty of girls and all i need to do to meet them is say that first thing. that opener and then i talk to them. The ones that don't like me i don't care about. Not everyone in this world is suppose to like me.Can you guys give me a couple openers. and can you guys give me any thing else you feel would help me. I've used the opener you Blink a lot it got some results. it's showing that i'm use to being with girls, it shows that i'm not all over her looks. shows that i'm not desperate.Well i'm still a PUA in progress. I will make it one step at a time
god bless
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You sould try EFT for you're anxitey. Its this tapping method that you use and bad feelings and memerios and it actually works. I thought it was crazy but I've been plesntly suprised with the results. Plus its all free so it aint someone tryna get some money outta ya or anything. Check the link below that has videos and directions if you wanna try it. Good luck to you.

www.tapping.com
 
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