"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm giving away 100 free copies of my book

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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THanks! I just received your ebook.. I'll give it a read when I have some time..
 

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A big thank you for the copy of your book - just got my nose in it now - interesting concept ...

Thanks again...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Serialized3 said:
I bet your name isn't really Rod Johnson.
Of course it's not - it's a pen name - both acronyms - I use it because it sounds like a salesmans name and for the other obvious associations

kind of lame, but whatever -

happy to send you a copy
 

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I've given out over 100 copies of the book now. I'd just like to thank everyone who has shown interest enough to receive a copy. I look forward to sharing some of the feed back I receive with the community. I know there are many intelligent, funny DJ's around here who will add fresh incite to this concept.
 

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I'll refresh this post a couple of times to keep the offer available.
 
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