I'm Fvcked I think

[whatdude]

I've already posted about this issue before, but It's bothering me more and more. Each time me and my girl have the chance to fvck, I come within a minute after I stick it in her. And after that, she doesn't wany anything else, she tells me that she likes getting me off. Well, I know some of you say that I may have it made with a chick like this. Yea, I pretty much do cuz shes a fvckin bombshell. However, I want to continue fvcking her... and I don't think that it's fair that she wont let me.

It's definately lowering my confidence. I want to get her off, but more importantly, I want to continue to FVCK .. god damnit. I don't know what to do, really.

And it seems that I only come when I stick it inside of her... she gave me a handjob for like 20 minutes and nothing happened... and she was blowin me and nothin really happened... but as soon as I stick it in her.. BOOM! Game over. WTF...

I masterbate... yea.... but we fvck like 10 hours later after I do it ...so masterbation really doesn't help me. I've been doing some research on premature ejaculation and I guess the creams don't do sh1t, and taking depression pills aren't healthy if you're not depressed. HOWEVER, I came across this product called "Mandelay"... Have any of you heard about it?

Any advice or tips or whatever will be helpful. Thanks a lot.

Later pimps

 

[I-am-someone]

Do you masterbate quickly? Or do you masterbate for 30 minutes every time?

Your mind gets accustomed to the amount of time you spend masterbating. I used to be able to sit there and go on for hours and hours on end, and be absolutely incapable of coming within 5 minutes.
Remember, having sex with a girl is more stimulating than your hand, and leaves you with much less control over everything. If she does her best, she's going to make it extremely hard for you to avoid coming quickly.

I would suggest talking to your girl about how you feel about it (don't do it before or during sex, just bring it up some other time). Then, I would also suggest trying to get more control over your orgasm while masterbating.

 

[superchristx]

yeah, he nailed it. When you toss off, just stop when you get close. Do that again. Repeat for an hour, every time.

Don't be too eager to penetrate your woman immediately, try to bear in mind that it will be the last five minutes of your session. Spend a lot of time on her, get her REALLY turned on, eat her out until she's about to come, and then **** her.

If those tips aren't good enough, read THIS post by the amazing SuperChristx, and take two when she rings the doorbell.

 

[Highrise]

Are you sure this is a premature thing bro? If you're sure, then I honestly have no idea. If you're not, all I can say is you last longer the more you do it and the more you actually put effort into trying to last longer. For about the first month after I got active I came in 5 minutes. I jacked it every day to help make me last longer. It didn't help, it just made me shoot less. AND listen to superchrisx when he says turn her on like a lamp light. Eat her out, suck her tits, do whatever you can, then when the time is right put it in and if you KNOW you're not going to last long give it to her HARD.

That's all I can offer. I have no idea whether premature is a psychological thing or actual biological thing. I'd be willing to bet psychological but have no idea. I also think it's key to keep a positive mindset. Talk to her if it's really bothering you (though chances are she won't bring it up). Have the attitude like 'YES I agree, this ****ing sucks!! But I'm working on it'.

Goodluck bro.

HR