I'm Done...

[Broken_Warrior]

After reading so many threads in this forum about dating, LTR's, short-term and marriage.

I've decided that its not for me, I was never a player never slept around but I did have my moments with women. Only had my childhood from birth until I was 5. Cut that very long story short....

Never had real friends only was around guys who always talk about fvcking women and smoking weed. I like the smoking weed part, but ALWAYS chatting about girls and their sex life is seriously annoying.

During that time I never trusted women, and they were all over me but I
knew they were "crazies" just by demanding this and that from me
I was like "Da fvck? I ain't your boyfriend" :crackup:

The look on their faces were priceless and no I didn't go there because
I don't want a child with a crazy woman, been with a single mother who was
BPD, NPD and even OCD. Jesus :cuss:

I have fewer friends now but we don't hang out as much, and these friends talk about everything world news, life experiences, what they have learnt etc..

Much more fulfilling and ambitous banter!

My last relatonship gave me a reality check as a "lesson" and it also has left a very bitter taste in my spirit--for those of you who didn't know what happened check my thread entitled "After 5 years of enduring"--

I was never one to impress females or males ( as in guy friends) for attention, I always held my own in high self-regard, I was much more fulfilled as a single man than players or those who are married or have baby mother issues.

All these tips and hints and advice is great but a man like me don't play games who never use emotional blackmail, if people can't take me as I'am then fvck you( at them), I'm mentally tired, emotionally drained from all the bullsh1t that is happening in our diverse and well respected communities worldwide...

I can't see no hope for the future generation from the lack of care and life principles not taught to them, so now I never want to have children.

I don't need a woman, except sex with various ones here and there but not too much to distract my newly found focus in life.

I don't need guy friends to validate my masculinaty, I don't need to be validated and accepted by the minds of people who are controlled by the media on who and what I should be.

My nickname says it all. I'am broken and I'am a warrior, I respect everyone else's view and choices they make in life so good luck in that as for me.

I'm done with the games. I rather keep growing into the king I'm meant to be buliding my fortress and never trusting women instead of the prince always climbing that damn wall while she can cut him off at any time.

Fvck climbing that wall, she would have to pass the labyrinth to sit beside me on MY throne. If I allow her to...but I will never love like that again...

Respect...[/

 

[Buddha_Mind]

Look man, I read your past thread -- I don't think anyone here advocates sitting in a room having a bunch of BS-lowly talk, I enjoy countless subjects of discussion myself -- women can be an interest merely because of the great levels of suffering I've experienced -- and the great levels of suffering I've seen other males around me experience. There is a variety of emotional responses when first reading this material and I know you are frustrated, but don't let yourself give up -- keep pushing on -- and let yourself heal from that 5 year relationship. You know some mistakes to avoid now.

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear Warrior,
Listen to Bhudda Mind,he really knows what he is talking about...,you are not broken mate,till they slap you in the face with a shovel...pick up your bundle and get on with it.

 

[Aaron B]

almost all women play games by default

unfortunately even though you hate games, if you are going to have women in your life you will have to deal with games. this is where our ego gets involved because it makes us believe we should have influence over the world around us and be able to change reality when we don't like it. instead we should accept the reality of women and games and act accordingly

the bright side is that women aren't really that good at games and if you spend some time learning their tactics its very easy to counteract them or to take preemptive action that will nullify a particular tactic

 

[Sparky]

almost all women play games by default

unfortunately even though you hate games, if you are going to have women in your life you will have to deal with games. this is where our ego gets involved because it makes us believe we should have influence over the world around us and be able to change reality when we don't like it. instead we should accept the reality of women and games and act accordingly

the bright side is that women aren't really that good at games and if you spend some time learning their tactics its very easy to counteract them or to take preemptive action that will nullify a particular tactic

Quote FTW!