"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Eiljwa

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I have been reading on this site for a while and have been really excited to apply these things. I have read most of the bible but it doesn't seem to have an answer to my question (please post the answer it gives if I am wrong.)

Like I said I have been really excited to apply these things. I decided to give up technology for a while like someone suggested. But here is my question...
I am in the middle of spring break. I have no car (working on that), am 16 years old, and all of my friends have gone away for spring break. I was wondering if you guys could suggest a place I could meet some girls and practice some of the things on this site before I go back to school. (I live in a small city that doesn't even have a mall)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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Maybe your best freinds are on holiday, but im sure you have freinds that you normaly do not arrange stuff out of school with, but you are still freinds, you could phone them up and actualy arange to do something.
 

Phat

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Mall , Park , Ice skating , Clubs , Myspace .
 

shydude

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Ummm. We cant answer the question!!! Becouse how do we know were u live and what ur place has!!! I live in New YOrk!! Clubs partys nightclubs girls all over the place crawling!! IDK about ur place!! Tell us
 
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