I'm better than you.

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

sighsigh

Don Juan

Apr 30, 2012

Atom Smasher said:
Remember, guys, that a woman MUST think you are more valuable than she is in order for her to be attracted to you. If she perceives you as less valuable or in most cases even equal, she must reject you.

Correct. This is the core of all PUA tactics: showing (or tricking) her that you are of greater value than her.

This quote should be put in a banner at the top of the forums.

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.