"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Alright so I've been gone from this for much too long...let me fill you in:


1. I've pretty much got this hot virgin girl that's sexually into me. I want to lose it to her but I need to figure out how to escalate to that

2. The other ***** is with some dude

3. I still haven't been to a proper party yet, I'm trying to network with some of the guys who seem like they're fun and are as into girls as I am but I obviously need some more work

4. I want to take up boxing or MMA to defend myself as much as whatever woman I'm with. Currently I can't really afford membership so I need some help with this one

5. I'm a solid muscled 160lb 6' tall guy having worked out for almost a year now


I'm feeling great but I want more improvement so feel free to comment on what I should be doing, where I should be going, and how to get there. Thanks in advance everybody.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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BPH said:
Alright so I've been gone from this for much too long...let me fill you in:


1. I've pretty much got this hot virgin girl that's sexually into me. I want to lose it to her but I need to figure out how to escalate to that
Elaborate on this. I've often been completely sure that I've had the chicks, so I just relaxed and they were gone in a week.

2. The other ***** is with some dude

3. I still haven't been to a proper party yet, I'm trying to network with some of the guys who seem like they're fun and are as into girls as I am but I obviously need some more work

4. I want to take up boxing or MMA to defend myself as much as whatever woman I'm with. Currently I can't really afford membership so I need some help with this one
When you know how to fight, you almost stop getting in fights. It's like a vibe you project. I'm not gonna donate money :)
5. I'm a solid muscled 160lb 6' tall guy having worked out for almost a year now


I'm feeling great but I want more improvement so feel free to comment on what I should be doing, where I should be going, and how to get there. Thanks in advance everybody.
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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There's a lot of technique to it, but it's just like pick-up; you gotta get experience. So as long as you do it yourself, and have the knowledge to correct your mistakes, then you'll be fine.
 
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