Ignoring you when u say NO

[illmatic1005]

Whenever im with my gf and she tells me to do something totally stupid(like 'can u tie my shoe", 'can you get that for me' even tho its a foot away, or other stuff like that) i always say 'No" or 'whats in it for me' or something like that and she always responds "NO?!? what do u mean no? or "you wont do anything unless u get something in return, whats up with that?"
and then she acts all mad and ignores me andwhen i talk to her she turns away and i just act like it doesnt bother me

am i handling this situation well,,because she wont talk for a while(like 5-10 mins afterwards)

 

[Brians_600rr]

lol!! bro all i can say is DONT GIVE IN!! ur doing a good job and showing her that she does not control u. and u will do watever u damnn well please.

but heres another thing that u can do in this situation:

Her: Hey can u give me my purse?

You: yeah (pick it up and just when ur about to hand it to her say) you owe me a foot massage for an hr. (or any other ridiculous price.)\

this sets a playful mood and is pretty funny if completed correctly.

good luck bro

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

Tell her to stop playing these childish games or i'll find a girl more mature than you.

Seriously, I wouldn't be putting up with these little sh!t tests.

How long have you been dating?

 

[illmatic1005]

we've been going out for about 2 months...but if i do say ill find a girl more mature then u..she'll get really sad and whatever...and when i do say 'you owe me a hand massage (cause she knows i love those) she will say ok...then when i put my hand out to let mher massage it she says "what, yea u got five fingers" and i never kno how to respond to that so i laugh it off

 

[HolyG]

Whenever im with my gf and she tells me to do something totally stupid(like 'can u tie my shoe", 'can you get that for me' even tho its a foot away, or other stuff like that) i always say 'No" or 'whats in it for me' or something like that and she always responds "NO?!? what do u mean no? or "you wont do anything unless u get something in return, whats up with that?"
and then she acts all mad and ignores me andwhen i talk to her she turns away and i just act like it doesnt bother me

am i handling this situation well,,because she wont talk for a while(like 5-10 mins afterwards)

Stick to your guns young DJ. She's trying to control you.


Second she CAN control you, it's the old "Let's just be friends".

She may pout, but she is attracted to you.