"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ignoring As a Tool?

antidonjuan

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I need a tactical Guide of Push-Pull
Is push-pull ignoring a girl whom you gave a lot of interest?
How do you draw her back after the push?
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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antidonjuan said:
I need a tactical Guide of Push-Pull
Is push-pull ignoring a girl whom you gave a lot of interest?
How do you draw her back after the push?
I use push pull when the girl is acting "b!tchy" or not the way I want

Its about giving her attention/validation then taking it way- or vice vrsa

It could be verbal or not

You can use push/pull with your body language (ie pulling the girl in to you physically, and then playfully pushing her away...or playfully punching a girl, and smiling at her teasingly afterwards). It's about being unpredictable and oftentimes involves humor and playfulness.
 
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