"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Kailex
Master Don Juan
They'll text you again eventually. At least for me, they always do.
If you try to text her without any sort of apology or explanation... she'll play it off any sort of way.
Just don't text her.
SmooveMooves
Master Don Juan
Pvssy is not everything. If your fvcking tired, don't feel like replying, and want to catch up on some sleep, then don't reply, you did right.
Smh I wish I would wake up in the middle of the night after a long day, just because there may be a chance some b1tch might want to get piped.
Some of you guys need to remember:
Pvssy has no place on a pedastal, it is as common commodity as mint flavored bubble gum.
Would you wake up in the middle of the night for a pack of gum you can get tommorow?
OP, the way I see you have two ways to play it, you text her sometime today and say "Hey, I was sleep" or busy or out, whatever.
Or you can go Kailex's route, and wait for thay b1tch to initiate again. However the ch1ck has to have decent interest for this option. Most likely both of these will work for you.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Hmm
Don Juan
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