"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ignore The Trolls

Blackdragon5095

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AngelusPUA said:
It seems like you are stereotyping all the members of this forum. I am here purely to help people out, I had a lot of help from guys like POOK back in the day and now I feel it is my duty to help guys. I have been out and applied everything in the field now I am content with my sex life.

There are people in this forum that need help, there are people who need help and then there are KBJ and trolls, sadly the people that really need this site and the people that are trying to help are in the minority.
I'm glad your a better man & learned from your mistakes.

But the real reason why you got guys asking questions that have already been asked, starting flame wars and lieing. Is because they want attention.
Same reason why a random guy on the street starts laughing at you and says your shoes look like s hit. Just for attention.

But bro, don't be like other guys, warping yourself around the dj fourm problems. This site is just to get women and thats it. You become a real man in the field, not on the dj fourm.

You become a dj master in the field not by having 1,000 posts on advice.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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AngelusPUA

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I am a DJ master, just trying to help out other guys now. I have been involved in flame wars with trolls in the past few days I don't know what got into me but that’s all over now. Let the trolls to their thing I'm just going to try help some guys who look like they need it.
 

IsiMan84

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grinder said:
Whatever happened to the concept of judging someone by the content and quality of their thoughts and not superficial preset assumptions?
I'll second that.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ObieJuan

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AngelusPUA said:
I just got back from a 2 month around the world trip and I work off my computer, want a little relaxation time before I get back out. Plus I haven’t been here in 4 years the fascination should wear off soon.
I hope you stay and help, you are needed here. Don't let the trolls run you off :up:
 

The Phoenix

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Hi all, I am new to this site and just recently started posting for my bootcamp about a month ago. It really saddens me to see a place that has helped me soo much being disruped and jeoperdized by trolls and stupid people.
I have read the DJB and almost all of the answers to my questions and even some encouragement words needed were already found there, which saved useless posting of the typical questions.

May be what we need is a change in policy, allowing people to post only after a period of time, say....a week, I am not sure, most people who really want to learn will naturally familiarize themselves reading the material before posting. We could have a code embedded within an article in the bibble that would allow people to adquire posting privileges at the time of subscription so to ensure that whoever is posting has at least browsed through the bibble first.
I for the most part ignore stupid or baseless subjects, as for questions that get asked over and over, the standard reply should be "READ THE BIBLE" and if you want to be nice you can quote the article posting tittle.

I hope most of you guys who do read the articles with the intention of helping others will not be disuaded to stop doing so by ignorant attention starving trolls.

I for my own will keep on folloeing the postings and replying when I have something to contribute, or to update my journal or bootcamp as my commitment to this site.

Open to new ideas as always,

Sarge on brothers!,
 

realsmoothie

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Geez... you guys think this place has a troll problem, you should get out to other sites more.

Oh, wait... I'm not allowed to say anything, I haven't been here a year. Maybe in six months I will be allowed to berate the heck out of newbies too.
 
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