"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Just an FYI for posters that you can place people on your ignore list by clicking on their profile. That way you never have to see another post of theirs. I use to have Wyld on my ignore list, I put iqqi there briefly but since removed her.

I'm awfully close to adding a new poster to my ignore list in the last 48 hours, he's so angry and trolls. Posts the same reply in every thread about AW's & flakes even when the thread isn't about AW's or flakes.

Who's on your ignore list?

ps does anyone know how to check who is on my ignore list?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Stukawhatever is on mine.

Yeah, user Cp > Ignore list.
 
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Here's mine:

AttractBlogger2008
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Skip is a Biitch
Skip is Baack
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FYI azanon apparantly Total Control is skip according to some posters but I've never even knew who skip was.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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MacAvoy said:
FYI azanon apparantly Total Control is skip according to some posters but I've never even knew who skip was.
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i knew total was one of our own impostors!
 
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I've had iqqi and My Name is Nobody on mine briefly.

I may of put potato on there too once.

In anycase yeah it sounds like Mac could be considering Jack Prescott for the old ignore add.

That or this new Mavrick fellow but I haven't seen enough of his posts yet to know what he may of ticked Mac off for other than his morality posting agenda.
 
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KontrollerX said:
That or this new Mavrick fellow but I haven't seen enough of his posts yet to know what he may of ticked Mac off for other than his morality posting agenda.
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Good call General KontrollerX.

Here is some artillery for you to use to get this idiot on the ignore list:

Mavrick is an arrogant attention slvt!
 
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I could see this thread turning ugly pretty fast. hmmmmm.
 
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Jack Presscott
AFC Savior (even though he is banned)
Mad Manic (for a while but is off of my list)

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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KontrollerX said:
That or this new Mavrick fellow but I haven't seen enough of his posts yet to know what he may of ticked Mac off for other than his morality posting agenda.
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Actually Mavrick is a buddy of mine. I didn't realize it at first though. It was just a good old healthy debate. His behaviour yesterday however seemed a little out of character.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Yep.
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my first thought as well, but I decided that I didn't care.

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comic_relief said:
my first thought as well, but I decided that I didn't care. ..
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This forum is morphing into something... :nervous:
 
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azanon said:
I could see this thread turning ugly pretty fast. hmmmmm.
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Well to be fair, we can't see whatever the person on our ignore list is saying anyway.

It'll be a "he said, she said" scenario.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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WesCottII said:
Well to be fair, we can't see whatever the person on our ignore list is saying anyway.

It'll be a "he said, she said" scenario.
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In practice, it never seems to be a completely effective means for me to not see what these people say. Sometimes, I begin to browse while forgetting to log in so the ignores are not enabled in that scenario. And even if I do log in, when someone quotes one of these people, I'll end up seeing the quoted text.
 
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