"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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If your gf dumped you and you came here to complain...

skinnyguy

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…you will be ridiculed being a pvssy. Guys on here are not compassionate and do not care if you suffer. I don't think this is the right venue for that. Talk to a therapist instead.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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JoeMarron

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Many of them are pvssies though and need to be told that...
 

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i think they come here for advice. from what I've seen, the guys here seem pretty compassionate which is just as well considering most of them have been through the same thing. the advice given here is far more useful than anything you'd get from a therapist. and it's free.
 

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I think every guy that comes here to complain needs to shut up and take action.
 

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Or instead of a therapist, don't be a pvssy to being with.

Men, you are only as good as your ability to get a new girl in a new city.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Solomon

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bigneil said:
Or instead of a therapist, don't be a pvssy to being with.

Men, you are only as good as your ability to get a new girl in a new city.
False

You're only as good as surviving

How many guys would make it in the wild if there was a war (God forbid) or something to happen?

Do you know how to hunt and fish without a gun?

Do you know how to make a fire?

If you don't I suggest you learn
 

abe0

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Bullsh*t!!!! All of you have been in the dumps at one time or another over some chick at one time in your life!!! I think if men can not support each other in some way or another by either giving some advice or at least lending an ear to some bro who is down....then we are f*cked. That is why women outsmart us more often than we outsmart them.....so quit the macho bs..and help your fellow bros......if we can not support each other then who can we b#tch to...another b#tch? Abe
 

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skinnyguy said:
…you will be ridiculed being a pvssy. Guys on here are not compassionate and do not care if you suffer. I don't think this is the right venue for that. Talk to a therapist instead.
As you should be ridiculed; We are not your mother, so stop complaining to us. If you want advice, ask a question, but don't ask if you aren't prepared for a heavy dose of truth. If you want to whine about your achy feelings or the blood flowing from your vagina, call your mommy or a therapist.
 

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We should not ridicule anyone, but should help guide them and show them the way to greatness. That's what this forum is about.

In my own experience, going through a painful break up can be one of the most profound turning points in a man's life and with the right direction and support, he can become the best he's ever been.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I think people are very sympathetic. Its called tough love. They aren't going to enable you to be weak though, and they only say the "mean" things to tey and help you snap out of it.
 

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The words that are spoken seem harsh right now, but later when you are "awakened" to reality the are actually refreshing. Imagine you started to feel sick and went to doctor and lets just say for example you had a curable type of cancer that if caught early enough could be ccured. Lets suppose that the doctor who ran your test failed to mention the cancer and let you go on thinking that everything was ok, how would you feel about him later if you found out that the cancer had spread all threw your body? See alot of men who have learned their lessons the hard way only wish they had guys like this around when they needed it. Sadly some of these men have too keep learning things the hard way after being told over and over and fixed themselves and change behaviour that could save alot of time, heartache and money. But not everybody can be saved and arguing back and forth with veterans of war only makes for. Unnecessary casualties!
 
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