IndianaJoneS
Don Juan
When I was on a way to my date, I always kept thinking about how to behave or what to say etc.
Reading stuff on sosuave.com or the DJ Bible about beeing ****y and funny and bla bla did´nt fix it for me, because I ended up thinking about strategies and such things making me even more insecure of MYSELF.
So, for me the following worked :
When I had a date with a new girl, I approached different girls on my way to the location (what worked best for me was driving by train because it´s an awesome location for approaching chicks.. It´s like them sitting there and waiting for you to choose...) going for their#. In this way, my mind relaxed, I was instantly cured from anxiety and could meet my date in an easy and cool mood.
It´s the snowball effect : you approach girls knowing you already "have" one and then you meet her knowing that you just got additional "options". Good bets for you
Hope this is helpful for someone...
CU !
Indiana
Reading stuff on sosuave.com or the DJ Bible about beeing ****y and funny and bla bla did´nt fix it for me, because I ended up thinking about strategies and such things making me even more insecure of MYSELF.
So, for me the following worked :
When I had a date with a new girl, I approached different girls on my way to the location (what worked best for me was driving by train because it´s an awesome location for approaching chicks.. It´s like them sitting there and waiting for you to choose...) going for their#. In this way, my mind relaxed, I was instantly cured from anxiety and could meet my date in an easy and cool mood.
It´s the snowball effect : you approach girls knowing you already "have" one and then you meet her knowing that you just got additional "options". Good bets for you
Hope this is helpful for someone...
CU !
Indiana