"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

If you really knew me..

Thread starter Naughty Ninja
Start date Oct 12, 2012

bigneil

Banned

Oct 13, 2012

When I was a kid my dad whipped me with a belt. I got over it.

How many of these whining women went anywhere in life? Sour grapes.

Remember: a "poor me" attitude is just inverted vanity.

Meanwhile, as incognito42 points out (and what my girl said 2 weeks ago) "Girls like *******s, guys who don't hang all over them... because women want to work for it."

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.