"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Jariel

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This entire board has been turned into a fvcking joke, full of nerds, trolls and pathetic losers with too much time on their hands. 99% of the advice being posted here today is utter bullshyt because 99% of the losers here never leave the house and their only sexual experience involves internet porn and their lubed up palms.

There has been some invaluable advice on this board, but you'll have a tough time finding it among all this geek spam that fills the forums today. Unless you want to end up like these pitiful geeks, don't get involved in troll posts...hell, it's probably best to ignore everything posted here altogether. The users whose advice is worth taking aren't here any more anyway.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The Juan and only

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why don't you go and get that "male escort" job you're hoping for and stop wasting your time with stupid posts.

Yes, I will agree that there is A LOT of bull**** on this site but it has been mentioned hundreds of times already + any sensible person can usually tell who is completely full of **** and who isn't.


stop trying to turn people away from this board. It IS helpful...period.
 

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Not so fast! Senor Fingers is back! Hopefully he will grace us with more of his wisdom! *hint hint* ;)
 

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i agree with jariel, not just with this board, but on every PUA site this seems to be the case as more and more people find out about these things

i see alot of tips that are given that haven't even been field tested. that's ridiculous to post a tip that you haven't even tried. that means it isn't even a useful tip, it's more of an experiment
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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THIS "tip" belongs in DJD, it is horrible tip... and will provide nothing to anybody who has grade 10 reading skills and still sees good tips being posted.

Check Non-Juan's post see what he says to do, and do the opposite. If you want to ***** and complain why not rewrite half the posts yourself? Learn from other peoples mistakes my man, that is one of lifes lessons, brought to you from the school of hard knocks.
 

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I agree there are good posts here, but the problem is how does a newbie know which are the good posts and which are keyboard jockey theories or troll posts?
 

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From experience...

there is a difference between newbie who learns and uses advice.
there are the idiots who read post after post hoping it will kick their ass, carry them out the door, walk them up to an HB, and pick her up for them.

The newbies shouldn't be reading the threads if they don't understand the bible.
 

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Originally posted by Jariel
I agree there are good posts here, but the problem is how does a newbie know which are the good posts and which are keyboard jockey theories or troll posts?
I have always said that any advice should be taken with a grain of salt and tempered by one's own experiences. The problem here is you have too many people afraid to fail and completely ADDICTED to advice. They log on here every day, building a philosophical composite of what a "DJ" is in their minds while racking up an obscene amount of posts without testing any of the knowledge they have gained. So we end up with a majority of mental masturbators jerking their sad loads all over the forum with their terrible advice. I say "so what?" We can either complain about them or just make sure our own game is tight. It's up to us.

Your question is a valid one, but the answer is quite simple. The way to find a good teacher is to see if his teachings get you RESULTS. That means taking time away from the safety net of SoSuave to apply what you have learned and so you can start finding solutions on your own, as a man.
Originally posted by Duke
Not so fast! Senor Fingers is back!
Hey Duke! How you been? It's nice to be back for the holidays. 2006 is going to be a year of hard work and success for me, so you probably won't see much of old Fingz. Sosuave is a nice place to visit, but I sure wouldn't want to live here.
 
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wheelin&dealin

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Originally posted by Jariel
This entire board has been turned into a fvcking joke, full of nerds, trolls and pathetic losers with too much time on their hands. 99% of the advice being posted here today is utter bullshyt because 99% of the losers here never leave the house and their only sexual experience involves internet porn and their lubed up palms.

There has been some invaluable advice on this board, but you'll have a tough time finding it among all this geek spam that fills the forums today. Unless you want to end up like these pitiful geeks, don't get involved in troll posts...hell, it's probably best to ignore everything posted here altogether. The users whose advice is worth taking aren't here any more anyway.
Ok.. so you are having trouble deciding which advice to take? or are you just disenchanted at the moment? If you're just venting anger, then that's cool. No worries..

Cheers,
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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