"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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If you like "people's guys/girls" POSTS on facebook, do they return the favor?

TheLoner

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If you like "Other people's guys/girls" posts/or photos on facebook, do they return the favor?

I have some facebook friends where I always "Like" their posts or photos,

but they never like my "posts" back.

It is really upsetting because these other friends always like the posts of mutual friends we have, but never mine.

It is like they are intentionally trying to show how much they dislike you.

When you "like someone's post", have you ever encountered where you always like their posts but they never not even once like your post?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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floydb25

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Yes... Or if I comment on theirs - they will mine. But it's usually random... you say something interesting or funny or real - they like or comment. Go figure.
 

TheLoner

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floydb25 said:
Yes... Or if I comment on theirs - they will mine. But it's usually random... you say something interesting or funny or real - they like or comment.
It is really weird, I always "Like" or "Comment" on people's photos and posts, but they never like me or comment on mine.

I guess I am not a likeable person.
 

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Guess not. Maybe you could try being interesting, insightful, unique, and real - instead of trolling and complaining. :moon:

Being a try-hard and acting desperate for approval / reciprocation (or "likes") is also fail.
 

TheLoner

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ScottMustaine said:
Post your facebook profile link and whole SS will add you and like your pictures and posts.
Right, because it is very normal to add friends from SS community to your facebook?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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plate's_empty

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You should post a pic of you Dong. You might get some likes and/or comments.
 

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bradd80 said:
just post an update status declaring that you intend to kill yourself, I'm sure that will get a lot of likes

DJJizzyJeff likes this.
 

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ScottMustaine said:
Yes bro ! Not only that , but we will most likely help you by liking your profile pics and posting. That will make chicks see you got friends and life and that you are praised !
It might look kinda weird if it's all dudes commenting and liking my pics,

could you possibly get some HBs to comment as well?
 
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