"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If you have the time, pls read and give advice PLEASE!

sargent158

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Ok check my story out

So i was talking to this girl from work, sh!t got a little serious, she said i love you i said that Sh!t 2, we had sex and all that stuff she told me she broke up with her boyfriend, but what she didnt know was that i was friends with her exboyfriend or w/e the f$ck he is on facebook, so i was reading messages she left him like "i love you so much, ur such a perfect boyfriend" all that bull****, he wrote back to her i love you 2, so questioned her about that (cuz she knows im able to read comments that are left to her) and she said thats just the type of relationship they have, that they are just friends, i didnt believe anything of what she said, cuz that would of been the same story i would give if i did the same sh!t and a girl questioned me, but i played it off like i did believe her cuz at the end of the day, who;s the one gettting laid.....yeah....

ok so week b4 valentine's day i ask her if she wants to spend the night with me, she said yeah, so i took the time off from work, yeah thats right i took time off to spend time with her. as the week went on we will talk on the phone and she will say things like "ooo you know all the people that have asked me to go out with them on valentines day" i was like ok then go with them, and she was like "no i rather spend it with you. on the 2/14 i receive a text from her explaining that she cant come cuz her mom dosent let her (im 19 she's 18) but i just think that maybe one of her friends convinced her to go and she just thought f*ck it im just going to tell him my mom didnt let me, cuz i mean its a good excuse, cuz i cant question that, its her mom you know. After i already got the time off to see her, and i killed my self to find her some freaking tulips, for those of you who dont know its freaking hard to buy assorted color tulips on valentine's day.....but thats another story, so yeah.....so she worked that same day, i work at call center so when she was leaving i was on a call, she comes to me and is standing there and i guess she was waiting for me to give her a hug or some**** but i was busy on my call, next thing you know she just says bye and i wave good bye to her 2

I get out of work i send her a text saying, hey i bought you flowers i guess
ill just give it to you tomorrow or some****, she says 'well if u werent being
such an a$$hole i would of waited', i said 'B!tch! ( in my head of course) i was on a call how was i being an A$$hole, and she just said whatever

its been 4 days now that i havent talked to her, she sent me a message today saying 'its tottaly been about 4 days now' and i responded 'yes it has' and she replied 'ok just making sure i was right' and i didnt write back

so tomorrow im going to work and she is going to be there, i dont want to work it out with this girl cuz she is no good for me, she lied to me about not having a boyfriend, she flirts with like everyguy and i simply cant trust her, so i wanted to know what would ya suggest for me 2 do when i see her tomorrow, should i say hi to her if i see her, or should i just ignore her, or should i try to talk to her so i dont **** up a friendship.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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iqqi

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What friendship? She has no respect for you, or herself. NEXT!

Take the high road right out of that disaster. Good job, as well.

Tell her she isn't the girl for you. Then put up a mental block to her BS.
 

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QUOTE]should i say hi to her if i see her, or should i just ignore her, or should i try to talk to her so i dont **** up a friendship.[/QUOTE]

I would suggest to say hi to her if you see her and act like you're not phased or too concerned about her and her bullsh!t. It sounds like she's trying to get you to chase her and make a chump out of you.
 
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