"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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R19 said:
I am not gonna drift too far, but it's all the same theme. If you start acting a lot differently with them once you get IOI. It would be great if we could all be transformed into a hot chick for a few weeks and then all this sh1t would become even more clear. Just go out every day/night, run into tons of AFC's and a few DJ's and go get railed by whoever you want to.
This got me thinking. If you could be a chick for 1 month with only free time, what would you do with it? You start from scratch, know no one, and have a decent place and realistic amount of money. Like you just moved to a new big city...

Looks - How hot would you be? (and that's on a real, global scale where the hottest Playmates and Miss Universe girls are 7-10 not some backwater attitude where all the girls at the party were 10's BS). Assuming most are gonna be 6/7 on up, but the reason why/details is where it can get interesting.

Age - How old? Why? Another superficial factor, but the devil is in the reasoning.

And - Most importantly what would you do? Days/nights...

On day 32, BOOM, you are back to your current self with only the knowledge and experience that you gained. It's a 31 day gift to get an inside look to whatever you want from the female perspective.

This thread is either going to crash and burn or be a decent spin for DJ's to have some fun...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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haha, interesting post

Dude, if I could be a chick for a month I guess I'd try to learn everything about them, make some girl friends, try to get into the inner circle and GRAB all the information I can.

Awkward thing would be to have sex with a man though since you know you're going back to being a man in a month but I guess that it would be worth it just to know how woman deal with that aspect.

There you go
I guess I'd become a slut lol
 

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Splendidostring said:
Dude, if I could be a chick for a month I guess I'd try to learn everything about them, make some girl friends, try to get into the inner circle and GRAB all the information I can.

Awkward thing would be to have sex with a man though since you know you're going back to being a man in a month but I guess that it would be worth it just to know how woman deal with that aspect.

There you go
I guess I'd become a slut lol
well, if you don't want to be with a dude then just go after chicks, chances are they'd know how to get another chick off.
 

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Kal0051 said:
well, if you don't want to be with a dude then just go after chicks, chances are they'd know how to get another chick off.
I dunno man. I get the feeling that Lesbians (true ones, not the bi-wannabe chicks we all see) are the most sexually unsatisfied couples there are.

I mean... i just get the mental image of two chicks lying in bed after some clam fighting, they just look at each other and go "Did you cvm?" "Nope. You?" "Nope." "****ing men."

I wouldn't do it, there are some things man is not meant to know and i get teh distinct feeling this is one of them :p
 

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ok so here's my first thoughts:

Looks - 7.5/8.0. I don't want to be a 9 or 10 on my scale ot 7.5 (a real, global scale where the hottest Playmates and Miss Universe girls are 7-10 not some backwater attitude where all the girls at the party were 10's BS) because that would make the experience much different in many regards. Everything would be just a little skewed... like maybe a lot of guys would not approach, etc.

Age - I would be 25 because I think the 20's is the more challenging age range of chick to work.

And - I would have the top of the line iPhone and my goal would be to run day and night game non-stop. I would go on tilt to fill up that iPhone with as many AFC's and DJ's as possible.

I would toy the fvck out of the AFC's as much as possible to have all the right lessons pounded in my head. I would play with them, really punish them, and have them spoil me rotten as much as possible, cards, flowers, chocolates, gifts. Get inundated until ready to puke with stupid lines and supplicating stuff.

I would have one take me out to a top restaurant only to say I wasn't feelin' good to end the date quickly, freshen up, and go DJ stalkin'. Then I would take in all the smooth, savvy game I could, and have them rail the fvck out of me. I would fvck with the DJ's too, to learn all the different ways they deal with difficult situations. And when I wasn't busy with guys I would be sexin' up the hottest chicks possible work on my oral and soft skills.

I would sh1t test the hell out of everyone as much as I could to learn even more.

By day 31, I would hope to have a crashing iPhone with memory full of contacts, and know enough AFC, chick, and DJ game cold, inside out, to step up my game on day 32 to another strata.

Oh well, I guess a lot of guys are gonna say something similar...

** Just realized I maybe should be playing this exercise as a guy with 31 days, trying to let go and max out interaction with chicks only (that is my shot of tequila) and see what happens...
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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