"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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IF shes interested, you'll get the number

KneghtRyder

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after doing several approaches today ,

I am starting to thinking, if a chick is interest it doesn't really matter
what you say when you talk to her or how you ask for her number..I think she has decided before you even open your mouth.
you can be direct it doesn't really matter, bottom line is if she's interested , she'll give it to you.
I guess you can be a little more confident, aggressive that might help a little.



AS pimphop said, SHE HAS already chosen !

all your job is to BE COnfident and ASK
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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so next time, tell her a story about how you have a rash on your d*** and let us know if your theory is correct.
 

jamescr73

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dude, ive gotten numbers in 20 seconds before. Your partially right, if she thinks your attractive, she'll give you the number, even if she has a bf. Just because you have a car, doesnt mean you cant find a better and more reliable one, you know. But you cant walk up to a girl and stumble on yourself, look at your shoes, and get the digits. With confidence you can literally walk up to a girl, say "Hey, Ive got to take off, but i saw you from over there and i came by to get your number, write it down (or punch it in my phone), and Ill call you sometime". How long does it take to say that sentance with confidence? 5 seconds? Walk away, dont look back, and call her in a couple days. Done.
 

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jamescr73 said:
dude, ive gotten numbers in 20 seconds before. Your partially right, if she thinks your attractive, she'll give you the number, even if she has a bf. Just because you have a car, doesnt mean you cant find a better and more reliable one, you know. But you cant walk up to a girl and stumble on yourself, look at your shoes, and get the digits. With confidence you can literally walk up to a girl, say "Hey, Ive got to take off, but i saw you from over there and i came by to get your number, write it down (or punch it in my phone), and Ill call you sometime". How long does it take to say that sentance with confidence? 5 seconds? Walk away, dont look back, and call her in a couple days. Done.
So you are confident because You know she thinks your hot or because You are just acting confident you so you can do it in 20 seconds ?
 

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im confident in general. i think im average looking, but girls tell me im hot. I lift weights, and am in good shape. I just hold my head high, and exume confidence. Plus you can tell when a girl thinks your good looking. I used to be affraid to approach girls, and i would get nervous, and if i did approach them, i would usually have that twinge in my voice that you can hear when someone is nervous (people giving speeches and such), and girls can spot that from a mile away. I finally got to the point where i realized, what am i affraid of? Some chick telling me no? Big deal, another will be along in 15 seconds. I havent been denied a number now in probably 20 approches. Ive got numbers from girls with bf's, ive gotten numbers from girls that have bf's and the guy was in the other room. When you have the balls to approach a girl and chat her up and get the number in 2 minutes, and you know she has a bf cause you saw him with her 4 minutes ago, that shows her that you have balls, and there arent a lot of guys out there these days that will do stuff like that. The way i see it, is you have no reason to be nervous about approaching a girl to get her number, just hold your head high, be confident in yourself that your walking away with her number, dont bore her to death, and have fun with it. Its just a silly game.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Like jamescr73 said… a number is an easy thing to get… you can get a number in 20 seconds by having the right attitude and by being appealing to her…

I think there’s a real scale of things… I have a few friends who are full-time models in London, not the ‘I’m a model’ type that everyone seems to fall into nowadays because they took a few amateurish photos of themselves with their **** off and got rejected at an audition, but the London Fashion Week and national advertising campaigns for T-Mobile, Topman and a bunch of other high profile companies, type…

I can be anywhere with these dudes and they’ll have girls falling over themselves to get their number because chicks think they look “so fvcking hot”, lol… I’m not quite up with them, but I’ve had numerous chicks approach me in the past to give me their details, and usually when I approach a chick whose number I want, I will get it quickly… as you fall lower down the scale then the time frame generally becomes larger… unless you’ve got the Rolex in view and your wallet bulging with $$$ and she’s a material girl then you’ll need longer to exhibit your worth to that girl because your worth isn’t necessarily physical or material… by learning about some of the things in this forum you learn how to exhibit your worth faster to chicks…

And for those who may think that the secret is to having lots of $$$, but little confidence… true, you could get yourself a bunch of material girls, but you really don’t want that kind of chick because she didn’t come to you out of respect… she just saw a great big $ sign over your head…
 
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