Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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If men as a whole were smart, this rude/***** syndrome wouldn´t exist

JdelaSilviera

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I wish that there were a male version of feminism, that teached men how to behave

All the flakes, rejections, b*tch behaviour from women could be solved very easily if men had more control over their penis. This behavior that women got into in recent years, could be solved I dare to say in less than a month.

The problem is that while many guys here are smart, men in general are not, and they do not understand that if they want something very much, they are most likely to fail... this is of course sex. Men believe by behaving like dogs, hitting left and right, many times girls that don´t meet their standards, will increase their chances of getting laid. It sounds decent right? If you hit on a lot of girls you will increase your chances of getting one right? But what if every men does that... the result is a global disaster It´s ridiculous that a man would marry a woman who had ****ed 20+ guys, who doesn´t even meet his standards, only because it´s the first one he could get, it´s pathetic!

This situation of ugs fcking hot guys, is because these guys are lowering their standards... and they shouldn´t, it´s not good for anyone.. Of course if you were an ugly women, who still get´s hit on very frequently by guys, you know that in short cycles you will eventually get a hottie, so why bother with average guys?

Women are not any more hypergamous than men (we too want the best we can, perhaps not in status but in beauty), the thing is, we created a situation that allows them to be this way...

The solution would be very funny to see. What if all of a sudden men stopped approaching in the clubs (they would go there to have fun instead of hunting or being a mummy at wall), stopped texting girls as often, stopped making compliments, or even stopped staring at every girl in the street like psychopaths , and started having standards? Men would be a much more respectable gender, of course.
Oh, and if men rejected fatties like women do... you would not see so many fat women... because they would be killing themselves in the gym, to get human attention and love (something everybody wants)

Women life force, attention, would disappear, and they wouldn´t be able handle it. Notice how crazy women get when you don´t answer a text in a timely matter, or how mad they stay when you go a while without communicating, or how a hot girl get´s furious if you don´t stare at her in the street.
What if those hours of make up before a party, didn´t result in men chasing them... yes, they would hate it.

This is more or less what women did in the last years, the difference is that this could work much better for us, because while we can´t go without sex, they can´t go without attention, and they are actually weaker they can´t control their behavior..... the situation would then stabilize in a middle ground, where both sexes are equally active and respect each other.

Although this would be easy to solve, and I´m sure it would, this ain´t happening because we live in a world of dummies...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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SgtSplacker

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In my experience when you don't know a girl very well they tend to act this way. But after you know her a little better the ball is in my court.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Who Dares Win

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Nobody can deny what you said but you understand pretty simple that is not gonna happen anytime soon.

Two other phenomena could have the same result, a different ratio of men/women like during wartime where women know that they have to work harder to obtain constant attention of a man.
It works both psychologically than matematically and naturally push toward a state closer to the one you talk about.

The other one unlike the one we are talking about here which is structural (involves society as a whole) is psychological and involves only the two parts of the equation.

Just remember how a girl automatically treats you really good when despite being in contact often, you dont show any sign of special interest.
The girls at the work place which everyman chase but you treat as the other women there for example.

However this is not gonna happen when you are creating the interatction instead of the interaction being created from a situation.

Thats why social circle game is better, you dont do cold approach, you dont show attention from the beginning, you first interact with a woman neutrally untill other dynamics happen.

Cold approach has a less chance to success because you lose point in the interaction frame and you can score those points back only with an well above average look.
 
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