"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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PantyWhisperer

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It's a psycho sh|t test. And how does one "basically soft next" someone? That sounds like the most wishy washy thing ever.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I have basically soft nexted her.
dude that'd be a "hard next". Snapping you with another guy in her bed...... that's trolling at the highest level. She wants commitment, yet she just showed she isn't GF material. I'd tell her to come over. have a fun session, and calm/cool/assertive tell her, "That snap you sent of another dude in bed was to provoke me into a jealous rage, but honey, it'd did the exact opposite and showed me you aren't commitment material". "We cant hang out anymore, now get out". Nuke it to her face. Ghosting wont teach her a lesson, you need to hit her in the head with a sledgehammer. Otherwise you're just another guy that wont commit.
 

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dude that'd be a "hard next". Snapping you with another guy in her bed...... that's trolling at the highest level. She wants commitment, yet she just showed she isn't GF material. I'd tell her to come over. have a fun session, and calm/cool/assertive tell her, "That snap you sent of another dude in bed was to provoke me into a jealous rage, but honey, it'd did the exact opposite and showed me you aren't commitment material". "We cant hang out anymore, now get out". Nuke it to her face. Ghosting wont teach her a lesson, you need to hit her in the head with a sledgehammer. Otherwise you're just another guy that wont commit.
I like every part of this. Always get that last anger banger in. It's a tremendous ride. And you are never less in need of any woman than you are in the precise moment immediately after you nut. Talk about a great frame for telling her to stick it. Standing right there with you still running out of her!! lol Pull your pants up girl, I'm outta here beeeeyootch!!
love it!
 

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I came into this thread thinking that if a woman mentions another dude she "used to" or "thinks about" sleeping with when you're not exclusive, then maybe she actually is trying to get you to commit to her and tell her, "no other men, you belong to me now" or whatever.

However, the snapchat thing, like a dude literally in her bed, is psycho. Where do you guys find these women? That is completely disrespectful. If she contacts you, I'd respond, then let it taper off...
 
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