"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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If a girl keeps teasing you

rrrrr

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Not teasing in a sexual way but making fun of your perculialities. Like saying I would expect you to do something like that or that's so etching you would buy or calling me weird. Everything. This is a girl I have known for a long tone and shes never done this. So she started throwing me sass about something and I guess I got a little flustered and argues with her and she was like take it easy I'm just trying to tease you and it's obviously working. Is this a bad thing to show this emotion? Like if shes giving me crap which shes been doing nonstop lately am I supposed to just play it off? The problem is it doesn't bother me that much but I guess I come off upset
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Cremasta

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See, right here you can just tell blatant lies and tease right back!

"Look! Can you stop with the flirting please? All your friends are saying that we should just get a room!"
 

VladPatton

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You gotta suck it up and 1-up her, man. Time to get creative with his one...she might be looking to bang, so DO NOT get butthurt over anything she says. Sharpen your wit and throw it back to her, this chick wants to play.
 

Uncharted

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Agree on all of the above, but here's something else you can do:

Never call her or ask her out again.
 
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