Idiots or Allies

[Caravaggio]

When first discovered game dynamic from Neil Strauss, AMOGing became a new awareness I had never even thought about. At first it was empowering to realize how many dudes are complete pussies and can’t hold eye contact with another man. But it also wrecked my frame when I’d meet others with equally unflinching eye contact. It had a weird self-questioning effect that could mess with my mojo.

Then one solo night a year and half ago while wenching this bulkier and equally charming guy inserted himself into a circle I was working. Our eye contact was firm and I felt it coming again and instead I up-nodded guy, smiled and said, “whassup?”

He replies in kind and we bullsh!t for a second. Dude has a powerful presence, I’m impressed even intimidated. Then he’s all:

“These your girls?” with a sly tone

“Nope” He made an eye motion to chick he was after, I shrugged and indicated mine. All of sudden the energy changed and with an equally sly smile he said:

“Lets get ‘em”

All of a sudden I hand an instant wing-man and we both pulled our targets and traded numbers for future adventures. Last night we were rocking the house at the very same bar when between shots we were joking about competition in the field. He's all:

“if you’re fighting over a b!tich here, you’re an Idiot and don’t get it.” I agree and respond:

“Its way more fun when you’re allies” and that note we went back to work. I Got some numbers had a great night and total a epiphany:

If you’re worth your salt, no man’s your competition, but he can be your equal.

Game recognizes Game, yes?

I've acquired many instant allies since. Some have budded into awesome friendships sometimes just a shot at the bar when we see each other.

There’s no point in competing for a woman, you’ll inflate her ego and lower your value. Chicks aren't stupid, they see this crap all the time, and I doubt they're ever impressed by it.

So thus I say when running your game, you’re either surrounded by idiots or allies. When some kid’s trying to interfere with my game, I ignore him because he clearly doesn't get it. Girls do take notice of this, and every time I adhere to this rule their attention rarely shifts. If it does? Well sh!t, I'm not attracted to those with the attention span of a cricket anyways.

Men with social tact and respect get a fair shot with the rest of us, in this game we could use as many teammates as possible.

 

[Odisseo]

When first discovered game dynamic from Neil Strauss, AMOGing became a new awareness I had never even thought about. At first it was empowering to realize how many dudes are complete pussies and can’t hold eye contact with another man. But it also wrecked my frame when I’d meet others with equally unflinching eye contact. It had a weird self-questioning effect that could mess with my mojo.

Then one solo night a year and half ago while wenching this bulkier and equally charming guy inserted himself into a circle I was working. Our eye contact was firm and I felt it coming again and instead I up-nodded guy, smiled and said, “whassup?”

He replies in kind and we bullsh!t for a second. Dude has a powerful presence, I’m impressed even intimidated. Then he’s all:

“These your girls?” with a sly tone

“Nope” He made an eye motion to chick he was after, I shrugged and indicated mine. All of sudden the energy changed and with an equally sly smile he said:

“Lets get ‘em”

All of a sudden I hand an instant wing-man and we both pulled our targets and traded numbers for future adventures. Last night we were rocking the house at the very same bar when between shots we were joking about competition in the field. He's all:

“if you’re fighting over a b!tich here, you’re an Idiot and don’t get it.” I agree and respond:

“Its way more fun when you’re allies” and that note we went back to work. I Got some numbers had a great night and total a epiphany:

If you’re worth your salt, no man’s your competition, but he can be your equal.

Game recognizes Game, yes?

I've acquired many instant allies since. Some have budded into awesome friendships sometimes just a shot at the bar when we see each other.

There’s no point in competing for a woman, you’ll inflate her ego and lower your value. Chicks aren't stupid, they see this crap all the time, and I doubt they're ever impressed by it.

So thus I say when running your game, you’re either surrounded by idiots or allies. When some kid’s trying to interfere with my game, I ignore him because he clearly doesn't get it. Girls do take notice of this, and every time I adhere to this rule their attention rarely shifts. If it does? Well sh!t, I'm not attracted to those with the attention span of a cricket anyways.

Men with social tact and respect get a fair shot with the rest of us, in this game we could use as many teammates as possible.

 

[TheException]

If you’re worth your salt, no man’s your competition, but he can be your equal.

I prefer to say "If you’re worth your salt, no man’s your competition, but can be beneficial."

Something about saying a guy "is your equal" that doesnt mix well with my competitive nature. That being said, Im all for guys being cool with one another and I always treat every guy with indifference unless he shows hes cool. Because I have often found.....the majority of guys will disappoint you. Since 95% of guys are chumps....hes bound to be one.

 

[Mike32ct]

I prefer to say "If you’re worth your salt, no man’s your competition, but can be beneficial."

Something about saying a guy "is your equal" that doesnt mix well with my competitive nature. That being said, Im all for guys being cool with one another and I always treat every guy with indifference unless he shows hes cool. Because I have often found.....the majority of guys will disappoint you. Since 95% of guys are chumps....hes bound to be one.

Yep. Some instant wings are ok. But most I met have been very creepy and turned off both girls lol.

It's a judgement call. Some guys are cool. Some have good intentions but are creepy or say/do lame things because of lack of game. Some are just back-stabbers. You have to size up the guy very quickly.

I prefer not to go there at all and thus remain solo. But that's me.

 

[The Simple Man]

Yep. Some instant wings are ok. But most I met have been very creepy and turned off both girls lol.

It's a judgement call. Some guys are cool. Some have good intentions but are creepy or say/do lame things because of lack of game. Some are just back-stabbers. You have to size up the guy very quickly.

I prefer not to go there at all and thus remain solo. But that's me.

Yeah of course, you don't need wingmen for cougars.

 

[Caravaggio]

Fair critique indeed. Im from a family of 5 boys so competition and cooperation are hand in hand I guess. But its a true story about some of them turning out to be crappy wingmen. I'm just better at sizing them up now.