"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I wish women would quit getting knocked by guys that can't support them

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Robert28 said:
I'm not looking to support anyone, just an employer trying to find good, honest help that I can depend on. My point was that it makes it hard as he!! to find the good women that I can trust, when all I'm seeing applying for jobs are the one's like I mentioned. It is very likely my area as I live in a semi-small town that's VERY liberal. As a taxpayer I know exactly where my tax money is going and why there are so many single moms around here. Now, I will gladly hire a single mom if she doesn't bring drama to my business and wants to work hard. Gladly give her a shot! The problem is finding those types! I don't want some highschool dropout that doesn't have a car and a bum for a boyfriend and expect me to hire them just because. As a self-employed business owner you have to be VERY careful who you hire. This isn't some fortune 500 company where I can take a big gamble and lose. I know what I'm looking for in an employee, it's just finding it is what is so frustrating. What also doesn't help is my salary I list for the job seems to attract bums like flies at a picnic.

Robert are you hiring for a secretary or assistant?

I know the economy is still ****ty but there aren't any qualified women looking for a job? how much are you hiring on for

This really is sad but becoming more and more common
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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