"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

I was watching COOL RUNNINGS

oscarxp25

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 11, 2005
Messages
117
Reaction score
3
There is a line in there that I think applies to all this stuff that we talk about here. Some of us are so obsessed with getting the hottest girl, thinking it will solve all our problems

"If you aren't enough without it. You'll never be enough with it."


The line just hit me real hard in a way my ten year old self couldn't appreciate back when I first saw it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Chamber36

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 5, 2011
Messages
1,556
Reaction score
286
Location
Amsterdam
amen
 

st_99

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 20, 2006
Messages
1,783
Reaction score
59
"obsessed" is the key word here. Its ok to want a hot girl but christ, don't
go getting all stupid about it.
 
Top