"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I want big forearms and calves.....

speed dawg

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You read that correctly, in my eyes, those are the real vanity muscles. The ones that you see most of the time, even with clothes on. Obviously we could put wide shoulders in here as well, because that's visible with clothes on too. And who doesn't respect a guy when he can big, visibly muscular forearms and calves??

So, my question is, how to achieve this? I know the typical answers will be to eat big, deadlift, farmer's walk, etc. to gain size everywhere thus making my arms bigger. Well, I can't do that. I have a back issue that keeps me from lifting serious weight in a 'pushing' fashion. I already do deadlifts and squats, albeit high reps and low weight. Just a fact of life, so spare me the 'DO HEAVY DEADS HO HE HA'. I know lifting heavy works, I did it for years.

Back to my question, I've had some pretty good results from towel pullups (low reps), rolling up newspapers, reverse curls (15 lb. DB high rep), that sort of thing. I do lots of regular pullups too because it's a pulling motion and doesn't compress my spine. I like to walk around on my tip toes, run in sand, and do bodyweight calf raises for those.

So what else? Do those wrist rollers work? Is there really no way to increase the sizes of those two body parts without heavy whole-body movements that compress the spine?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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yes, rolling up a cord on a stick, with a weight attached will help. so will "digging" in sand, with both hands, fingers spread apart, and "scooping" up the hands thru the sand. Need about a bushel basket sized wooden crate or plastic drum for this. If you cut a drum in half, gotta split a pc of water hose and use it to form a safety rim around the edges of the drum. If you do not, even a plastic drum will cut you, one day.
 

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or take steroids and only work those muscles
 

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try some reverse barbel curls for the forearms
 

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Calves are usually a harder muscle to build unless you just genetically have 'em. I'd say just do some type of Machine Calf Raises; 3-5 sets of 10-20 reps. Squatting can build up your calves too. For forearms.. Wrist Curls, Reverse Curls, Hammer Curls, Grip Work, Deadlift with a double-overhand grip OR Deadlift with a "Fat Bar", do Barbell Rows with a double-overhand grip w/o straps. Gaining weight can help fill out other areas as well. Hope that gives you some ideas.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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A lot of jumping rope will get those calves looking shredded
 

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shrugs, i notice my forearms are getting bigger ever since i started doing shrugs.
i got big calves, like goblets , but i think its in my genes since i never exercise them directly. actually a friend told me that i look like a T-rex bcuz i got really small forearms, so i'm going to focus on arms from april.

you can do rack pulls and rows instead of deadlifts , that's more than enough indirect work IMO
 

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Krueg said:
Deadlift with a double-overhand grip OR Deadlift with a "Fat Bar", do Barbell Rows with a double-overhand grip w/o straps. Gaining weight can help fill out other areas as well.
switch said:
shrugs, i notice my forearms are getting bigger ever since i started doing shrugs......you can do rack pulls and rows instead of deadlifts , that's more than enough indirect work IMO
As I said earlier, no can do on the heavy stuff. I deadlift already, but I can't do enough weight (back injury) to really help the forearms. Mainly I do it just to keep by back and hips loose. I'm slowly building up the weight again, but it will be a long time before I'm pulling serious weight, if ever.

It's frustrating, because hand size and bone structure is what it is, it's not changing.
 

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Speed dawg-

I've had this problem for years. Large upper arms and legs, but lagging forearms and calves. Here's what's helped:

Fat grip anything. Look up the Meadows row; you grab the end of a barbell. Fatgripz from Elite FTS.com can be put on any bar. You need to activate your forearm flexors which make up the bulk of your forearm muscles, and you do this by thick bar work primarily.

Towel or rope pull ups are great too.

For calves, sad to say they are probably 70% genetic. The only thing that helped me is heavy, consistent volume. I'll try to do like 4 heavy sets of 15-20 twice a week. And they're still not big. I've just accepted it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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