damn i told myself, i would never post here, but i couldnt help it.
heres my situation..im 18 and about to graduate, actually like 2 days of school left.
now this girl ive been talking to recently, we used to flirt like everyday at school for about 2-3 months, im talking about lots of kino, she would grab my ass, i would slap hers, she would lean on me, i would hold her etc.
then at prom, she told her prom date that i was her bf, but obviously she was just kidding, and told her prom date she was jk. then at prom, we both ditched our dates, to be with each other. so after prom, i took her back to my place, planning to smash, but she wouldnt let me, hell she wouldnt even let me kiss her! however, she let me hold her, as i caressed her face, and played with her hands/fingers, basically soft **** like that. lots of kino. now at that point, i thought to myself, well ****, shes probably playing hard to get, two can play at that game, ill give her a call in 2 days.
then what happens? she texts me the very next day, then she starts calling.
then she starts calling me everyday the following week, up until saturday. sat. was the last time she called me, she called me to see what i was doing, told her i was at a party, we talked a little bit, she was at the movies, blah blah, then i left. then she calls back like 5 minutes later, just to tell me not to "mess with any girls" im like, haha alright. then 2 hours later at around 1am, she calls again! tells me she misses me, blah blah, asks if i miss her and that 2 days has been too long. then she calls me again at 3am, we talk, then i tell her she has a busy day ahead of her tomorrow (and she did, shes a busy girl sort of) and told her she should get some sleep, and ill talk to her later.
since then, she has never called or texted me again, and at school its not the same, no more kino, its almost like shes avoiding me, cept, shes not....except for the occasional innocent sock to the stomach. i texted her monday night to see if she was sleeping, then she goes no why? so i called her, but she didnt pick up, it was obvious she was doing it on purpose. so i stopped calling. at first i thought i had her, now that shes not communication anymore its driving me crazy! i called her again tonight, and to my surprise, she picked up! however she said she was doing a project (which was probably BS) and i asked her if i was bothering her, she says kind of, then i was like, alright call me back later? she goes maybe (i hate when they do that ****)
she never called back...
the thing is she was at some dance? on sunday, and i suspect she probably met some new guy there, and now shes probably confused about her feelings. i mean i guarentee you this girl was crazy for me last week. she showed all the signs of it.
now, here are what i think is happening
1. her friends found out, and is telling her not to get whipped, and reverse the game on me.
2. she found someone else, is confused.
3. just stopped being interested (highly doubt it though)
i think its #1...
help me out guys, what should i do! i only have 2 days of school left and she seems like a great girl, i really dont wanna screw this up. im sick of just being able to hook up with random hoes just for a one night stand, im interested in a LTR. and during our phone conversations throughout last week, one which lasted 4 hours till 3am, she told me she didnt want a boyfriend (she was lying), and subliminally gave me hints that she wants to hoook up, now shes not talking to me? whats the deal?
heres my situation..im 18 and about to graduate, actually like 2 days of school left.
now this girl ive been talking to recently, we used to flirt like everyday at school for about 2-3 months, im talking about lots of kino, she would grab my ass, i would slap hers, she would lean on me, i would hold her etc.
then at prom, she told her prom date that i was her bf, but obviously she was just kidding, and told her prom date she was jk. then at prom, we both ditched our dates, to be with each other. so after prom, i took her back to my place, planning to smash, but she wouldnt let me, hell she wouldnt even let me kiss her! however, she let me hold her, as i caressed her face, and played with her hands/fingers, basically soft **** like that. lots of kino. now at that point, i thought to myself, well ****, shes probably playing hard to get, two can play at that game, ill give her a call in 2 days.
then what happens? she texts me the very next day, then she starts calling.
then she starts calling me everyday the following week, up until saturday. sat. was the last time she called me, she called me to see what i was doing, told her i was at a party, we talked a little bit, she was at the movies, blah blah, then i left. then she calls back like 5 minutes later, just to tell me not to "mess with any girls" im like, haha alright. then 2 hours later at around 1am, she calls again! tells me she misses me, blah blah, asks if i miss her and that 2 days has been too long. then she calls me again at 3am, we talk, then i tell her she has a busy day ahead of her tomorrow (and she did, shes a busy girl sort of) and told her she should get some sleep, and ill talk to her later.
since then, she has never called or texted me again, and at school its not the same, no more kino, its almost like shes avoiding me, cept, shes not....except for the occasional innocent sock to the stomach. i texted her monday night to see if she was sleeping, then she goes no why? so i called her, but she didnt pick up, it was obvious she was doing it on purpose. so i stopped calling. at first i thought i had her, now that shes not communication anymore its driving me crazy! i called her again tonight, and to my surprise, she picked up! however she said she was doing a project (which was probably BS) and i asked her if i was bothering her, she says kind of, then i was like, alright call me back later? she goes maybe (i hate when they do that ****)
she never called back...
the thing is she was at some dance? on sunday, and i suspect she probably met some new guy there, and now shes probably confused about her feelings. i mean i guarentee you this girl was crazy for me last week. she showed all the signs of it.
now, here are what i think is happening
1. her friends found out, and is telling her not to get whipped, and reverse the game on me.
2. she found someone else, is confused.
3. just stopped being interested (highly doubt it though)
i think its #1...
help me out guys, what should i do! i only have 2 days of school left and she seems like a great girl, i really dont wanna screw this up. im sick of just being able to hook up with random hoes just for a one night stand, im interested in a LTR. and during our phone conversations throughout last week, one which lasted 4 hours till 3am, she told me she didnt want a boyfriend (she was lying), and subliminally gave me hints that she wants to hoook up, now shes not talking to me? whats the deal?