"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

I thought it meant that she still thinks about me but I guess she just likes the songs

Thread starter Kian_boem
Start date Feb 18, 2020

Kian_boem

Don Juan

Feb 18, 2020

I thought it meant that the songs that she has in her playlist meant that she still thinks about me but I guess she just likes the songs. but one of my friends have song that have quiet on it. And I thought it meant that she was thinking about me but I guess it doesn’t mean anything I guess she just likes the song. But on her playlist she has quiet hearts, it’s oh so quiet & quiet storm

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.