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i think im dating the exception

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well, it has been a while since ive been on this site.
lets see, im about a day away from being in the best relationship of my life for five months.

hmmm...

why do i think she's the exception you may ask.

simple,

she isn't in any way dramatic, it doesnt take her an hour to get ready to go to a McDonalds, she's actually a friend too, she wears only a little makeup, (maskera and blush), she likes everything to be totally open, she doesnt play mindgames, she isn't judging me, she thinks rather logically insteaunn of emotionally, and she isnt vain at all.

it feels so good not to have to keep my guard up and whatnot.

alls i hafta say is that the only reason we met is because i asked her out ten seconds after thinkin i wanted to ask her out.

thing ot learn:
DO IT FAST
the longer you wait the herder it gets.

c y'alls later

this prolly want helpful at all.
 
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lol

That was cute.

You did help with think about something. People overanalize everything. You overanalize almost everything about her. Just have fun with her, and if it doesn't last its nothing to kill yourself over.

She's not perfect, and no one ever will be. Plus how do you know this is what you want? Frankly unless you've dated everyone else you won't know for certain.

So try to learn from this relationship as much as possible, and remember have fun :cool:
 
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Sorry, the long you wait the EASIER it gets.

I see it this way:
You meet the girl ------ The door starts opening
You date the girl ------- The door gets to its full opening
You do nothing ----------- The door starts to close.

The thing is knowing when the door is easiet to walk through.
 
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I hate to be the bearer...

Not an exception... it is just that your relationship is the result of a girl that actually likes you. When girls are actually very attracted to the person they are dating... all of the things that they atypically do is not necessary. She is not the exception then... because one may be able to guess that she has practiced such behavior before... just not currently. Moreover, this is also not to say that she will not commit them in the future. It may sound like I am coming in here trying to burst your bubble no... just letting you know the truth. That and in your future relationships (if you have any) you learn that having your "guard" up only worsens the situation... not improves it.

The end of your post is what I commend you for... you saw what you wanted out of life and did not hesitate to go get it.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Originally posted by LikRetsam
Sorry, the long you wait the EASIER it gets.

I see it this way:
You meet the girl ------ The door starts opening
You date the girl ------- The door gets to its full opening
You do nothing ----------- The door starts to close.

The thing is knowing when the door is easiet to walk through.
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That didn't really make sense. He was saying that you should ask the girl out right when you decide you like her. You didn't tell us when you think we should ask the girl out.

Explain my brotha. :confused:
 
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I interpreted his post as ask the girl out right away when you like her. From my experience, unless she likes you alot, it doesn't work that way. That's where the door system comes. The more you date, the more you have fun, the more she's into you. period.

It's all about going for the kill when the target isnt wounded yet. It's like eating the individual recipes of a cake instead of the cake baked.

You gotta make the cake before you eat it.
 
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I hear ya man, and I usually do it the way you described.

But maybe the spountenouity (sp?) and confidence of asking her out right away would just be crazy enough to work?

Just a thought.
 
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LikRetsam

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possible on paper.... Reality is a whole different world.
 
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well i left for a day or two, i meant i asked her out on a date rite after i knew i liked her.

there is a good point and i was just thinkin, that if or when we break up, i mtie be kinda taken away.

i dont know nethings possible, but i do kinda worry that ill be i nshock or something.

o well, whatever happens happens,

o yea im havin a lotta problems with over-thinking, and i wouldnt say over-analysing, with what i said about her, its jsut ive gotten to know her.

and i fear i may be turning into a AFG, well, without the f i guess.
after 5 months i am definately a lot "mushier."

i thin kthe rules change after a while, or they bend a lot.
dunno, i guess ill jsut keep being me
 
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