I think I may have ruined my relationship

[chuchu]

Maybe she's just still being mad at you. Give it some time.

Turn your game around.

You should read the DJ bible again. Do your homework before you initiate any contact with her. Focus on challenge and raise her interest level. Example, take her to a romantic dinner bust out all the things you learned on her. After that, just leave her alone. Let her do whatever she wants. You go find another girl to focus on. This create mystery to her while you focus on your life meeting new people and lowering your interest level equilibrium to her. Go do some bootcamp. If she's still treat you the same, just dump her, then finish your bootcamp. By then, you got yourself another date. You'll be too busy to be sad

 

[WORKEROUTER]

Puerto Rico Lover, I realized this after reviewing some of the bible. If I was truly being a MAN (as in Pook's article "BE A MAN"), the she couldn't HELP but be attracted to me.

And like you said (and as I was telling my friend last night), if a girl is going to cheat on you, then she WILL. Getting mad and immature only makes you look like a kid, not a MAN.

A girl won't cheat on you if you are truly a MAN, even if other guys hit on her, etc.

This is why I am going to read the bible and focus on developing myself, not worrying about what some hor is doing.

 

[Trance]

It's easy to say, "just go find another girl," but that's not very easy to do, especially when you are attached to THIS ONE. I say to myself that I could get over here if I was just hitting on other girls, but it's hard for two reasons:

1. I am attached
2. I am not good at picking up girls.

And I feel like if I break up with her, then I will just be chilling by myself, again, feeling down because I really do want her back in my arms again.

WOWOWOOO.... U have a serious problem here!!
You are atacched with this girl. Probably you've got from her a kind of atention u weren't used to, and you are afraid that if you lose this girl, you will be alone for a long time without these kind of afection, because like you said, you dont consider yourself good at picking up girls.

But SOMEDAY you WILL have to move on to another girl, and that day may be now!!

Think about it for a second. If you aint got the confidence to seduce and get into a relation with new girls, even if you stay with this girl, if you breakup in the future you will have the same issue! You will have the same fear of breaking up for this issue! You wont be able to tell if you "settle" for her cause you dont get the same with another girl, of it this girl is what you "really" want!!
So why dont you take this chance, break up and explore the amazing oportunity life gives you of 3 billion girls in the world?

Once you have gotten along with more girls:
- You will feel confidence
- It will be your GF that considers you the prize and not her
- You will have the power in your relation (cause you know that if arent happy with your situation you can get easily in a new satisfying relation)
- You will trully know when you are merelly "content" or trully "happy" with a girl
- All aspects of your life will be better

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Originally posted by WORKEROUTER
Getting mad and immature only makes you look like a kid, not a MAN.

A girl won't cheat on you if you are truly a MAN, even if other guys hit on her, etc.

Women don't like Hotheads!!

:cuss:

A "woman" wouldn't cheat on you but a hor would - so you can still be a man and still get disrespected - so be careful with the company you keep!!!