I talk too fast, or get too enthusiastic

[Brighty]

I think I talk too fast, sometimes I just run out of words to say. Like I'll have a clear definition in my mind what I want to say, but it just doesn't come out right when I put it into words. Whenever I'm in an uncomfortable social situation, I always get extra nervous and when I'm carrying on a conversation, I just keep talking and eventually I run out of things to think about but I keep talking, which makes me look stupid haha. I've had opportunities with so many hot women and literally this is the only thing that's consistently ****blocked me.

Any advice from other people who have experienced the same thing?

 

[Maxtro]

It sounds like you have a very similar problem that I do.

When I get nervous or excited or sometimes just want to say something, I end up talking way too fast and people can't understand me. I get frustrated about it as well because I end up having to repeat myself which I hate doing. Very often the things I want to say do not come out clearly. Needless to say it does not help with the women.

There are some steps I'm doing to try and become more intelligible. The first one is think about what I want to say first. Basically plan out my whole sentence. The next thing is to try and calm myself down. In the vast majority of occurrences I only stumble with my words when I'm around people, which usually results in being excited or nervous. The final thing I do is try to speak extra slowly but not ridiculously slow. I put pauses between phrases.

The most important thing is to think about what you are saying and try to enunciate every thing. There is no point in talking fast if nobody can understand you.