Heres my story. I'm the Disc Jockey in a popular nightclub in my home town, and people always tell me (you must get all kinds of action being a Disc Jockey) But the truth is, I don't, but I think I could if I did the right things, thats why I'm here. Hot Girls always come up to my booth asking me to play them a song and all I do is say OK and play it . I know I can work these girls for a number or something, but I don't know how to go about doing it. Do I be a prick and not play there song? or do I play it right away to make them happy? any help on this subject would be great.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I Should Be Hooking Up
- Thread starter cleats
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Man - read the DJ Bible.
But to summarize, a little of both. Sure you should play their song - but if you dig them, make it go something like this:
DanceHottie: Hey, can you play somesong for me?
SexyCleatDJ: Hmmm...yeah, I could play it. You like that sh1t?
DanceHottie: What?! Hey, that's not sh1t! That's good music!
You: I dunno...you'd better not be bullsh1tting me.
Her: I'm not! I can't believe you don't like it!
You: Alright, I'll play it but it had better be awesome. Don't go anywhere in case it sucks.
Her: Okay...
you play the song
You: (Act like your vibing it a little)
Her: So what do you think?
You: (put your hand on her shoulder and look into her eyes) Alright, this isn't too bad. I'll give you that. I'll tell you what. Why don't you give me your number and we'll talk about it some more.
Done deal.
You could also close by saying "I'll tell you what. Why don't you stick around till my set's over and we can talk about it some more."
Or, if you don't have time and just want to get her number, you could get it before you play the song by saying "Hey, give me your number before you leave - I'm gonna call you if this sucks."
Obviously I've never DJd so I don't know exactly what protocol is but it should at least give you a general idea of how you can play it.
~Sloopy
But to summarize, a little of both. Sure you should play their song - but if you dig them, make it go something like this:
DanceHottie: Hey, can you play somesong for me?
SexyCleatDJ: Hmmm...yeah, I could play it. You like that sh1t?
DanceHottie: What?! Hey, that's not sh1t! That's good music!
You: I dunno...you'd better not be bullsh1tting me.
Her: I'm not! I can't believe you don't like it!
You: Alright, I'll play it but it had better be awesome. Don't go anywhere in case it sucks.
Her: Okay...
you play the song
You: (Act like your vibing it a little)
Her: So what do you think?
You: (put your hand on her shoulder and look into her eyes) Alright, this isn't too bad. I'll give you that. I'll tell you what. Why don't you give me your number and we'll talk about it some more.
Done deal.
You could also close by saying "I'll tell you what. Why don't you stick around till my set's over and we can talk about it some more."
Or, if you don't have time and just want to get her number, you could get it before you play the song by saying "Hey, give me your number before you leave - I'm gonna call you if this sucks."
Obviously I've never DJd so I don't know exactly what protocol is but it should at least give you a general idea of how you can play it.
~Sloopy
zerocelcius
Master Don Juan
I too am a disc jockey and as far as the stereotype that DJ's get hotties is very true.
First thing you have to do is not play thier song. (but have it ready to play) Than when they come ask why you didn't play thier song, roll your eyes and say. "What do I get if I play your song"? Than cut her off and show her that you have her song ready and say give me your # and I will play your song next.
Not that I do that kinda stuff cause I am more about the music and am in a relationship and stuff.....
First thing you have to do is not play thier song. (but have it ready to play) Than when they come ask why you didn't play thier song, roll your eyes and say. "What do I get if I play your song"? Than cut her off and show her that you have her song ready and say give me your # and I will play your song next.
Not that I do that kinda stuff cause I am more about the music and am in a relationship and stuff.....