Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I saw a HB 9 kissing on an ugly old man last night

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DJVladdy said:
ok johnson, you dont agree with me, I respect that.
Maybe its my ex-soviet mentality
Maybe, I just find the entire concept that "I deserve <XXXXX> and not only that, I deserve it more than you do" hilariously unrealistic. Probably that's just my capitalist upbringing. I believe that in the big picture people end up with pretty much what they earn for themselves and the ones who whine about not having what they deserve, or other people having what they "should have" are just unhappy with the consequences of their own life choices.

In short, the "greasy old man" was probably getting precisely "what he deserved" and to top it off the woman was a free agent, it's her choice after all.




DJ1234 said:
... seen a shady old guy who probably never have gotten a gf in his life have a insanely hot chick on his arm, but he ended up being a movie director....
I know a guy (just slightly) who is a very good friend of a friend of mine. He's a movie producer, no blockbusters but some reasonably well known Indie and other small production work. Makes a ton of money but the real kicker seems to be that he can say "I make movies and decide who is in them", and means it.

I don't think it's possible to get any more tail than he does, and they're all uber hot wanna be actresses, except for the uber hot want to be a movie producers wife ones.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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