Then take one of those girls who likes you out a few times and make sure a lot of different girls see you two together. Then when you run into those same girls again when you are out, talking to them will go a lot easier. When you are getting all the pvssy you want, women seem to sense it and just fall all over you. If you want to build a social circle, you can meet a lot of people through dating a girl, then later after you two break up all of her friends will want you. But take what you can get and start somewhere. I see a lot of guys on SS bemoaning how they can't get the HB8 and 9 girls, but a lot of them will admit that they have HB6 and 7 girls interested in them. imo, the best way to get the HB9 is to let her see that a HB7 wants you and that you are the type of guy who gets girls. This stirs up her competetive nature and makes you the prize.