"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I need some DJ insite on a girl.

Swede54

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Ok heres the story, this girl as been flirting up a storm with me ever since i met her. She makes eyecontact like she wants me **** down her throat all the time. Yet i asked her out and got a rejected. Saying she likes me but yadda yadda. So i told her to stop acting like that if she doesnt want to go out with me. And next day she filled out a blog quiz of mine here it is.

01. Who are you, what's our relationship?: Audrey, and i dont think anyone knows
02. How and where did we meet?: internet? school?
03. What's my middle name?: slut
04. How long have you known me?: a month
05. Tell me one good thing about myself?: you make me laugh at your jokes
06. When you first saw me, what was your impression?: i dont remember
07. My age: 18
08. Birthday: august something
09. My favorite band at the moment: um yours?
10. Colour eyes: blue
11. Do I have any siblings?: yea a brother
12. Have you ever had a crush on me?: um
13. What's one of my favorite things to do?: play guitar
14. Do you remember one of the 1st things I said to you?: probably, hey i hate you
15. Describe me in 3 words: mine
16. Name 5 things I love: me, me, me, oh what do you know? me, and sex, with me.
17. Do you think I'm good looking?: dead sexy
18. How would you describe me to someone?: skinny white kid
19. Would you ever date me?: i dont know
20. Tell me one thing you've always wanted to say but never did: have my kids
21: What do you like most about me?: your almost as perfect as me, but not quite
22: If we could spend a day together, what would we do?: ****
23: Have we ever gotten in a fight?: i dont think so
24: Do you think we will be friends for at least 3 or 4 more years?: thats a long time, so probably not, hopefully, but doubtful
25. Give me a nickname and explain why you picked it: um trevor
26. What do you think my weakness is?: sex and me
27. Do you think I'll get married?: no, you cant be tamed
28. What makes me happy?: me
29. What makes me sad?: anything thats not me
30. What reminds you of me?: trashcans
31. If you could give me anything, what would it be?: money sorry i was short last night by the way
32. When's the last time you saw me?: yesterday
33. Do you think our friendship is getting stronger/weaker/or staying the same?: stronger i guess
34. Do you feel that you could talk to me about anything and I would listen?: maybe
35. Are you going to put this on your LiveJournal/Blurty and see what I say about you?: its possible
36. If I was an ice cream flavor, which would I be and why?: vanilla
37. What song (if any) reminds you of me?: why dont we get drunk and screw? (that really is a song)
38. If you could change one thing about me, what would it be?: your dyslexia
39. Would you make a move on me?: haha maaaaybe
40. Do I cross your mind at least 1 time a day?: yea


what the **** do i do with this chick?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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quest

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ok.. umm..
definently sounds like you'll **** her.

invite her around to watch a couple of movies, have a couple of beers with her to get her nice and relaxed. kiss her, and the rest should follow.
 

anonuser78

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she's playing hard to get. at least u may get some out of this. but that quiz brings up a good list of topics u can talk to her about next time you see her.\

you're like me man, overanalyzing and making things mean what you want them to mean.

Just go for it. you have nothing to lose, you have only known her a month.
 

belividere

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you asked her out and she said no but then filled out that entire form with answers about having sex with her and having her babies. You probably could nail her but she sounds a wee bit like an attention hor.
 

Swede54

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see the thing is i actaully want a relationship with this *****, duno.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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dude, dont think about the relationship, that'll cloud your judgement and make you censor yourself. Dont think too much, just keep doing what you're doing. Take the risk, she will most likely not say no
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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