"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I need Kick Boxing info, please

flyinshark

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Hey guys. I decided to start Kick Boxing and i am going for 1 free lesson next monday to see if i like it. I'll be watching one lesson this friday, to make sure it's not some cardio shyt.

My goals are improving my cardio, training regularly, learning a new discipline (i have done karate (shotokan) for 4 years when i was younger), improving my self confidence, and making new friends if possible.

Has any of you done kick boxing before? Tell me all about it!


P.S. I don't want people to start arguing about which style is better and what not! This thread is about kick boxing, and kick boxing only! Thank you!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I have not kick-boxed, but I have pulled a hamstring doing other things, and it is in part keeping me from starting kickboxing. Stretch like crazy before doing your kickboxing workout, as I would not wish this injury on anyone.
 

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I see a lot of new mainstream interest in martial arts, does this come from that reality tv show about MMA that they have in the US?
 

flyinshark

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Originally posted by Phoenix_of_the_ashes
I see a lot of new mainstream interest in martial arts, does this come from that reality tv show about MMA that they have in the US?
I don't know, Phoenix, i never watched that show. In my case,i started thinking about martial arts while watching boxing on tv. I felt like i wanted to do it too, just to see if i could knock a guy out and feel the satisfaction of victory in a one on one fight.

I then thought that boxing was a bit risky, as i didnt want my nose broken or a concussion, so martial arts popped in my head. I've done karate before, so i feel comfortable with the idea.

Yeah, martial arts seem to have many positive aspects to them and anyone can grow physically and mentally from practicing them.
 

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It depends how your experience with shotokan was. If you wore a lot of big pads when you sparred, you'll be hurting a lot till you learn to defend against strikes. Also, we could punch to the face when sparring, so that's another thing to get used to.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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flyinshark

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Originally posted by Da Realist
It depends how your experience with shotokan was. If you wore a lot of big pads when you sparred, you'll be hurting a lot till you learn to defend against strikes. Also, we could punch to the face when sparring, so that's another thing to get used to.
We had just tibia pads and gloves as protection. We didn't hit the face when punching, but stopped as close as possible to the face without actually hitting it. We could kick and punch to the torso and belly with full power. As for the legs, we could do a hook motion to make the opponent fall or lose balance, but we didn't litterally kick the other guy's legs.

So i dunno, do you guys break your noses or something when you fight? How violent/bloody is it? I don't mind getting hit, but i wouldn't like having bruises all over my face at all times, you know...
 

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When I did spar, kicks and punches could go anywhere, but no elbows could be used since the guys I trained with actually fought in the ring under those rules. So look out for kicks to the legs and head as well as knees. There were no broken noses since we did have helmets and boxing gloves on.
 

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Originally posted by flyinshark
So i dunno, do you guys break your noses or something when you fight? How violent/bloody is it? I don't mind getting hit, but i wouldn't like having bruises all over my face at all times, you know...
I never kickboxed, but I boxed for many years. Wearing the occasional shiner or split lip is par for the course, if you're worried about that sort of thing before you even start maybe think again whether its something you want to do.

And yes, broken noses bleed A LOT.
 

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your going to be in such good shape. i wish i had time to train somewhere.
 

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I'm starting next tuesday. I hope i will achieve my goals of being in good shape and maybe learn something useful. There's gonna be girls there too, so i assume there won't be too many broken noses...i'll see
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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