"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Epic

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Guys, I really don't know what I'm going to do. I've been depressed for a long time. I can't get a girl, I just can't act normal around them. I work almost everyday, with several 12-18 hour shifts. We have few breaks, if any, and only a couple of minutes to eat something. I smoke weed every day, if I'm not at work I'm high. Many nights I've smoked so much that I'm still high when I go to work the next day. The weed isn't cutting it anymore. Tonight I snorted cocaine. I felt alive and like everything was okay and was going to be fine. I'm coming down right now and it's so hard not to snort more. I want it so bad. I'm afraid of what's going to happen to my life. What should I do?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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stop taking drugs would be a good start.

-peace-
 
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Originally posted by Fender
stop taking drugs would be a good start.

-peace-
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no way.. marijuana is a great gateway drug..he should try l.s.d. next so that he can trully exsperiance his true meaning here.then move on to more meaningful stuff.

don't worry about girls bro. just work on finding your way through recreational use. this is the true path of enlightenment.

then get the heck of Alamama..you DON'T want Charles Barkley as your gov. everyone will just want to play basketball and be on welfare...then the whole economy will go under.


catch the pretty waves...:cheer:
 
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don't trust those drug users who tempt you to using drugs...

don't do drugs..
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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